How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 9
810 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I have. There's times where I've had a sd say he would love my company and take cAre of me only to block me the day of our meet. I feel that when you know you can't afford the lifestyle you shouldn't let anyone waste your time or make false promises. It damages the trust your putting into your sugar relationship and any future connections you may have
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 36
I have met scammers in the group though i have not had anything intimate with them. I have chatted with a total of 4 and i have been a victim of sending pictures and i do hope my pictures hasn't been used to scam people. My advice is that do not send your account details to any sugar daddy, no pictures or nude pictures. The more u send pictures, the more they have details for another profile
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 26
I personally havent met any scammers in my experience, but I havent met anyone else either... I dont get much attention on this app. Im not sure whether it is my lack of activity or just because I'm new. But either way ive never been asked for my information by any scammers only the app. Im not even sure if thwre are scammers. And if there are they would most likely be male profiles.
2023-01-29
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Sugar Baby / 30
i met someone i. high school who said he woukd give me 50 dollars a weeek (it was highsdhool so fifty dollars was alot) he ended up handing me 3 dollars and fifty something cents. when i asked what is was he responded with."just accept it" i ended up tsking it and buying somethin g out of the vending machine at lunch timee. i still talk to him sometimes
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 29
YESS!!!! They are awful. You get them with any dating app really. But the most with sugar baby apps/sites. I always just trust the voice in my head. There are some really creepy people out there and regardless of our situation, we will always have that voice in our head telling us if something is off. I dealt with one today. he wanted to see pictures of me and know where I lived (specific town) I knew exactly then, that guy was a scammer. He also had TERRIBLE grammar. Couldn’t really form sentences, spell etc.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met scammers all they want is your bank information! They tell you how much they care for you and they also tall about their accountant, which isn't real, they are just trying there best to get money out of you when it should be the other way around. When I was going throu my worst they took all my money and left me in the negative now I only use the cash app or pay pal. What would be even better is in person!
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
I would say to just be smarter than them. There's way to many ways to send & receive money now a days. There's no way that you can only " send me money " by going into my bank account. It's pretty easy to call bs. Especially when they just want to give you 600 every 2 days for no reason. The fact that guys even come on here to scam women is disgusting.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 29
Many scammers . They will always try to get personal information out of you and ladies , do not give in . If it sounds too good to be true right off the bat it’s because it is . If they ask to pay off your debt by getting your credit card app login info it is a scam . Always use the CASH app or other methods that do not contain personal information
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 26
Honestly I doubt any Sugar baby has gone without encountering a few scammers. There’s the classic liar, the blockers, even worse sex trafficking! The most important thing is to take some time to get to know the people you Mach/message. Most scammers are beggars, and they are extremely direct about what they want. If you say no, they will find a new way to ask. They don’t care so much about pleasing you as they do pleasing themselves. Take care of yourself, & NEVER give your personal information to Somone you are not sure you can trust.
2023-01-30
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Sugar Baby / 63
If you meet someone and y'all talk for a day or two then they say something like they are going out of the country and they get there and then say they lost some money and they don't know what they are going to do . And then they tell you that the manager tells them they can't sleep in the room that they booked until they pay for the room and then they ask you to help them out. Then you just block them
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 26
I haven’t met scammers personally. But I have seen them on this app. My best suggestion is to make sure they are verified through their tax returns and that they have correct grammar and don’t seem fishy. One big sign that it is a scam is when they can’t spell simple words such as “daddy” or “baby.” So please be mindful about this and watch our. Please don’t get hurt :)
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 33
I’ve only been on Sudy for a couple of days and unfortunately have only been contacted by scammers. I’ll know right off the bat that the poser is a scammers when they ask me to communicate with them outside of the app (Kik, phone number) I never give them my phone number and let them know that I will not. They will also ask what banking institution I am with so that they can send allowance. Right then I know it’s a scam. When I inform them that I’ll only accept funds/allowance via Cash App or PayPal, the conversation usually ends. It’s best to then report the profile.
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 26
I've met a ton of scammers. They tend to ask for pictures/videos very early without ever making effort to get to know you. They will ask for bank information, please never give it out because it is definitely a scam. They claim to want to help you, but ignore you if you ask for some help paying for gas or anything small. If they push your limits just back away and tell them no, you've got to be comfortable with them.
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 29
There are so many scammers portraying themselves as sugar daddies & mommas. The one I know a lot of people have gotten is they ask for your mobile banking info. They’ll say it’s to deposit money, but a lot of them have a problem downloading apps like PayPal, that’s an immediate red flag for me. The banking info (if you give it to them I.e. username & password) can get them into your online bank and they can take the money out your account. Don’t fall for it!! Have them download PayPal or cash app until trust is built
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 35
There are scammers everywhere all of the time. You just have to be smart. If someone messages you on social media asking for bank stuff you wouldn't give it to them. Same goes here. Don't be too excited that you miss common sense signs. Remember they want you just like you want them. Always use your brain and never fear asking for proof. You'll be fine.
2023-01-31
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Sugar Daddy / 34
Never ever send out any personal information under any circumstances. Ask for him or her to purchase a book for you ( or anything small). I simply just confront them if I feel there is anything suspicious and usually if they are scammers they’ll just stop responding. Good luck to everyone and please be safe. Always remember if it seems to good to be true it usually is.
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 33
Don’t give ANYTHING until you get something from him. A lot of guys want the benefits of sugar without having to make any kind of commitment. If you start by asking for something small, and they give you pushback, I wouldn’t proceed. If he can, proceed, but always with caution and an understanding of what you’re getting yourself into. But at the same time there will be guys out there who will be able to meet the first financial asks and as you progress with your relationship will either come up with excuses or give pushback later. When you run into this, trust your instincts. If it feels wrong, move on to a new man who is actually in it for some serious sugar.
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 65
Honestly the best way to deal with them is to just ignore and delete them. They seem to have this idea that if they harassing you that they will get what they want which isn't the case but if they can't contact you anymore then they can't bother you! And the easiest way to detect if they are a scammer is if they ask you for very personal information right away!
2023-01-31
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have ran into many scammers on here. (It has become quite a usual occurance) and honestly ladies (and gents) do not send anything or sleep with them until you have met them face to face and they haven proven that they sre going to give you your allowance. Dont let yhem use you and then toss you aside without giving ylu what is owed to you. You deserve better thsn that. Please be careful fellow sugar babies.
2023-02-01
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Sugar Baby / 38
As tk what i have seen alot of these scammers ask for pictures or videos they asl for number to text then they follow by requesting bank information information. A sugar daddy will talk about allowence and send it prior to receiving anything be caregul on giving any information that scammers can use for anything. If you dont feel right dlnt do it always trust your gut feeling
2023-02-02
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Sugar Baby / 28
Scamming is something we've all probably went through being a sugar baby. There's plenty of ways to tell when someone is a scammer. They don't have a picture, they ask you for your bank info, account number, name, password etc. But don't give in. Block them and unmatch with them. Do what you feel is right. Don't give in, it can back fire in the end.
2023-02-02
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Sugar Baby / 29
Personally I have experienced scammers and the best way to not encounter scammers is by being alert and know what they are asking you.. There are many money platforms so you do not have to give out full bank account information, make sure to test the allowance by asking for something small before giving SD or SM anything like nudes or sleeping with them. Just be smart about the decisions
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 29
My hugest suggestion for dealing with scammers are to never share your personal information. Scammers are usually easy to detect because the first thing they ask for is Bank information. I’d suggest blocking the individual and making sure your account information is secure! In past arrangements, I have had daddies pressure me for confidential information and that makes it easier to detect a scammer
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met so many scammers. I have had many guys ask for my user and passwords for my bank account along with my security questions wich is no cool at all. If a guy asks for that then block them or try to persuade them to send cash in a check or in the mail. If a man says that his bank doesn't support PayPal or cash app then he is lying. If a guy immediately says how much he's going to pay you and asks for you bank info within a few hours then you know he's a scammer. Especially if you have not had an actual convo about what you would have to do for said money.
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes i have......And how i deal with those type of persons is ....as a sugar baby no sugar is to be provided until after i get what i want.....they want photos, videos and all that kinda stuff and is not willing to roll the dough....nuh huh baby....sugar ain't free and money talks. I gotta look good and without money i can't look good to give you the stuff u want.
2023-02-03
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve been scammed actually once and has to shut down my bank acc because I was new to the game. Honey all I got to say is don’t let these fools take advantage of you, don’t act before you see the cash because now in days you never really know who you can trust. I know of several girls that use Venmo and PayPal but I’m still a bit new to the game so I guess you got to walks before you run
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 37
Be careful with guys that don’t have pictures. That’s claim to be privet but there is two people one this you also need to know how they are. Don’t go on dates or send pics until you get allowance. Also very importante never use give out bank information cc number always use a safer ways like PayPal or something. Be safe if you meet them for the first time always public place then trust your instincts.
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 30
Yes. I have encountered a “sugar daddy” who wanting my account information. He told me he would send me an allowance weekly and get the ball rolling on our arrangements. I told him if he wanted to send me money, cashapp pay pal or western union were the best ways. It wasn’t like he was nearby either. He wanted my account number, bank name and everything smh
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 25
I haven't met anyone trying to scam me on this site yet. But that doesn't mean they're not out there. I've come across a lot of people in moments telling of their unfortunate encounter, regardless you always need to be careful with any personal information. I don't even give anyone my phone number without establishing a relationship first. So always be careful with any information you give
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes there are definitely scammers. My advice is to fact check things before doing anything. If he asks for your bank account, don't give him any info until you've looked up everything you need to know. Don't give any overly personal information until the person tells you more about them! Don't reveal anything, sexually or otherwise, until some sort of agreement has been made.
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, Ive been scammed. Off of this site, actually. He deposited a check into my bank account and it was not backed, so it bounced. He also asked if I could send some money elcectonically to an orphanage he donated to. I almost didn't fall for it because it took almost 2 weeks. But after it was deposited he started ignoring me and around that point in time I realized that he hadn't backed the check. I just reported it to my bank and had to go on about my life. I haven't heard back from him now in almost 2 months.
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 58
I'm posting this here instead of as a comment to a recent posting by a SD as WARNING to all SBs (& cause I'm afraid he'll try to smear my name). I had a neg encounter w/this SD after what I thought was a great Skype date. Before the date we agreed on terms, he deposited agreed $$ in my PayPal acct prior to our date, I gave him everything he asked for on the date. He told me how much he liked me, how beautiful I was, that he wanted to be exclusive w/me. All things a SB wants to hear...said he would treat me like a princess. As we were laying there still on video I was telling him about my coming weeks plans (simple stuff about my job & work I do w/church). Suddenly video cuts off, I figured it was Skype glitch, tried to call him back & nothing. Then I notice he sent a refund request through PayPal w/note saying he had never been so disrespected in his entire life. THEN, he posts in Moments announcing to all he'd just had "a very bad experience on an overseas Skype date" & "another $150 nz dollars down the drain" & that he "has new rules" & "will block anyone who's not local". He also msg me that he "didn't know what the f*** I was doing or with who" while we were on our Skype date. Plz be careful ladies! This man will be sweet to you, pay, but then request his money back. I'm not even sure if his payment is actually valid or not. It's currently pending transfer fr my PayPal acct to my bank. I can assure you all I didn't disrespect him, & it was my very 1st video "date"😔
2023-02-04
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Sugar Baby / 27
Just because a SD hits you up and tells you they think you'll be a good match for them doesn't mean it's true . Chances are if he sends you his phone number he is going to scam you . There is nothing wrong with communication through the app until you guys meet up . Do no give out banking info or go and buy apple iTunes gift cards either . Do not spend money for your SD as that is ass backwards lol
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 40
Don't give out your bank info. I've only been on this site a week and have had more of them then any other site. They are usually super up front. They want to know your bank, if it's mobile app, your log in info and password. They don't want to get to know you first just go straight to talking about allowences. They also want to talk to you through next or apps like kik
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 28
Plenty of scammers on here. Most of them get really upset when you don't want to give out your bank information. They'll also say they don't use PayPal, cash app, etc. You can also always use photo flip to see if the picture is stolen from anywhere on the internet. It's definitely something's that automatically give warnings. Always go with your gut feeling for sure.
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 27
I feel that as sugar babies, we need to know that the sugar daddy we potentially want to have is real and not a scam. Have him send something small through a reliable app or in person if that’s what y’all doing, to make sure he’s serious about it. Then that’s when you can make sure that he’s just as serious as you are. Never trust one who asks for banking information. NEVER. Go with your gut.
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 28
Oh my goodness, I met the worst scammer ever! Total douche bag but it wasn’t on this site. Basically we had a great conversation and we haven’t even met or anything and he was asking for my bank information to set up my “ allowance “ . Don’t be stupid ladies trust your gut. I immediately thought, this is way too good to be true and I started googling his pictures and found out he was a fraud, ladies do your research, ask him to send you pics. TRUST YOUR GUT & meet in person first ! Public places if you’re nervous!
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 27
I never send any type of naughty pictures without receiving an allowance. I’ve been scammed once never again. Ask for a picture of them holding a spoon, or holding up a number of fingers etc. never do anything without receiving some sort of an allowance. Today there are many scammers out. Don’t be stupid. Never give out full name, until you’ve got to know them. I use cash app, or Venmo to receive money.
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 27
You have to be smart and safe always. Never give out your bank information ever. There is a new way to scam its when they ask for an iTunes card I have been told by apple them self it's a easy way to pocket cash fast with no trace. Etransfer is you safest way or the send you a clear picture of a check so you can do it on line but even that one has its risk it could be a fake check but at less if they etransfer the money is actually in there account and is going to yours.
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 31
Too-good-to-be-true Sugar Daddy who wants to send you money up front to “show he’s real.” It’s your lucky day… right? WRONG! Here’s how NOT to get scammed. If someone you don’t know and have never talked to is requesting your banking info to send money, DO NOT give them the information. This is a scam. Who really sends complete strangers dough? No one...
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 57
Yes! Scammers are everywhere these days. Don’t give out your personal information until you KNOW you can trust the Sugar. Seemingly minor things such as....where you go to school or work can be detrimental if someone is out to harm you. NEVER give out bank account numbers or social security numbers. There are other ways to get paid without those being a factor.
2023-02-05
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I have met a lot if scammer whom pretends that they will give you parcel, jewelries, laptop and expensive perfumes. But you have to pay the customs first before you will get the parcel tgat he sent thats rediculous. Also daddies pretend will send you thousand dollars and since the site banned from giving personal information specially bank account they will ask your email and ask your banks account if you did not give they will disappear. I dont know what happened after you gave your bank account coz me i didnt gave.how to deal is to be wise and if you smell something bad, Back off and dont waste your time.
2023-02-06
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Sugar Baby / 35
I have not been doing this long but you can tell a scammer!! When they ask for your account number and password— block and report them! If he wants to send you money he does not need a password !! You have pay pal or transfer with out your personal information. So haven’t meet to many just one so far. Also once you don’t give the info and the messaging stops— then you know it was a scammer
2023-02-06
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes I have met scammers. I've been on study for a week now. My advice for all us babies is to just not give in to them. If they are soliciting you for pictures and videos and want to hear your voice, let them know it's not free and that a sugar daddy shoukd act like a sugar daddy and most wont ask for things like that right off the bat they will usually tell you your allowance and then ask you if that is ok then after you receive an allowance they will ask to take you out or for you to skyoe them if they arent in the area. But until you get what you need they dont get what they want.
2023-02-06
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Sugar Baby / 26
Always get to know the person. If be skeptical if he or she goes straight to your allowance. Never give out your bank information when they ask you for it. Always use other apps like pay pal or cash apps to revive your allowance. If he or she says they can’t do pay pal or other apps then it’s more likely to be a scam so just cut them off. Be careful about the information you give out
2023-02-06
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Sugar Baby / 28
Overall, block and ignore. If a daddy asks you for your online log in info, he's a scammer. In no way would that information give him access to putting in money or adding him to the account. That is a lie. NEVER under ANY circumstances, share your log in info with ANYONE. I'd also recommend not using anyhthing that has voice authorization. It is so easy to get a voice recording.
2023-02-06
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Sugar Baby / 29
The first 4 people i found on sudy were all scams sadly. Saying the exact same things. I wanna take care of all of your financial problems, who do you bank with. Delete your sudy account and I'll give you a 500$/week allowance. You focus on me and only me. Like gee buddy i wonder why you make 500K+ a year. Either its all the scams you run or weve determined thats a LIE...
2023-02-06
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Sugar Baby / 33
Definitely trust your gut. I've been messages by one, adding he wants to text or message on kik. He started texting me, immediately he's trying to send me money, says all he wants in exchange is pictures. He stayed asking bank account info, long in info. Me being dumb and naive, new to this type of thing I give it to him. He paid my full credit card balance $3,300, which made me think he was serious and legit. I never sent him any pictures, he never asked. A couple days later, he asks me to and money to an orphanage, but I refused until he gave me money first. He deposited 2 checks into my account totaling $1150, only asking me to send $300. Well, here I am receiving messages from my bank. I call and they said thy were fake checks, and the payment for my credit card was returned. I had a bad feeling about it the whole time, but when I asked questions he always had believable responses. He spoke clearly, making me think he wasnt scamming. Lesson learned.
2023-02-07
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Sugar Baby / 28
It’s honestly so annoying when you run into scammers on here one way to know if they are a scammer is the generic messages the usually send and if you don’t reply they send the same message with a different number. Another way to know if it’s a scam is they ask or state that they only to bank transfers credit cards and no other form of payment such as PayPal or cashapp
2023-02-07
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Sugar Baby / 34
So many scammers! My suggestion is to be weary of anyone that wants to give you money right of the bat without getting to know you or asking for a date. DO NOT GIVE OUT BANK INFO! A lot of them will try to lure you to talk to them on Kik. Also search the number if they tell you to text them. I have seen people saying their from California but the number is from Florida. Or the number will be a landline to a completely different person! Stay Safe!
2023-02-07