How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 7
810 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 26
I've had sudy for 3 days and have met 2 scammers. Both demanding I give my bank info right away. I try to suggest venmo instead because im not comfortable with giving my bank info away to strangers, my suggestion is to be careful and try to get them to use venmo or another payment app and if they absolutely refuse they are definitely scamming you. .
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have come across plenty of scammers in the short time of my sugar baby lifestyle. What I have learned on sorting the real from the fake is that a real daddy will treat you with more respect. He won't pressure you into sending selfies/nudes etc. first. A real daddy will try to actually meet in person compared to the scammers who will ask you to send nudes etc. first. What I have also learned is to never send your pictures first. Ask your daddy for a small gift in exchange for your pics to see if he's the real deal or not.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes I have. I usually don't send nudity or have sex until I see money. Scanners sometimes ask about your banking account. Never give actual bank information rather use apps such as venom, PayPal , square cash. That's what most of them are looking to do. Secondly if they say their net worth is high ask for babk statement with matching name better to be safe than sorry
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 30
My suggestion is to be cautious of them asking for any bank information from you. That’s most common with scammers. Don’t give out any bank account information. If there not ok with pay pal. Or western union or any other way that doesn’t involve important information stay away. I suggest, block and report. With no hesitation. Guys who are not willing to meet as well. That continue to text but never meet but always ask for proactive photos. But not willing to send u a lil cash gift for appreciation. Don’t send any nudes. Period. Those are either liars. Or scammers. Guys who prey on sugar babies who are not really sugardadys. They pretend to be somthing there not, and tell u what u want to hear just to get off on your buses or maybe even exploit them. Be very cautious of fake daddy’s as well. There usually only pretending for there own ego. But yet have no money. And far from successful.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have been previously that’s one of the reasons why I gave up on this at first. But then I realized I may just have to try the local sugar daddies! The guy was from somewhere else and kept Saying we would meet up. The guy got my bank info and sent fake checks now I owe my bank money now. But it’s omay I’ve learned my lesson. I wouldn’t send any bank info and wait until you meet them in person and make arrangements.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 25
Always ask for something minimal, not too outrageous. I wouldn't recommend meeting up with someone or sending nudes unless you are 100 percent positive that's it's the real thing. Never agree to anything before coming to terms with your sugar daddy. scammers usually hound you for nudes or favors without disclosing how much they will give you for your deeds. Have fun and be careful.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes I think most of us have all met scammers in sugar life. It’s unfortunate but it happens. The best thing to do is report them (if you can) also block and delete them out of your life. If they ask you for bank username and password information that is a big NO NO! They don’t need such information to send you money. Don’t be fooled ladies and gentlemen!
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 27
Beware of the “daddies” that ask for ITunes cards!!! It is a scam so beware ladies. If it seems too good to be true it most definitely is, so trust your gut always. If he doesn’t ask any questions or he seems to have an almost perfect answer for everything I suggest you be weary. Also beware of the ones who give you their banking information right away with no questions asked. That is likely stolen information.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 38
How to tell a scammer? Well the most obvious: THEY ASK FOR YOUR BANK ACCOUNT INFO! There are dozens of ways to send money to somebody, a real man does not need your bank app login name and password. I can also tell right off the bat if the scammer sends a whole "up front" paragraph as his first greeting. A normal guy just says "hey" or has some cheesy pick up line. But the guys who "Hi my name is Blahblah and wow are you sexy, I want to gice you $500 a week (without even talking to me? Flag) I don't have premium (then how are you messaging) so just text this number" Also, dudes with only 1 pic or no pics.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes, they usually say they are millionaires, say their "income," and give all these rules and then ask for your bank account. BIG SIGN. BIG NO NO. Especially when you say you'd rather use a safer transaction, and they refuse. Don't send any provocative stuff unless they pay your allowance first. It's their money, but it's your body and self respect that is more important.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 54
I am new to this.Wasnt sure what to think when joined but Oh boy never have I meet so many. Sense been on here meet more then my share or every wanted to. FIrst week 10 right off the bat.Wondering if there are any here that aren't. Don't give personal info ,banking passwords always be cautious because some you can tell but some are starting to become very slick.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have met more scammers than not on Sudy. Most of the time they’re asking for bank information (username and password) or will ask if you will get them a gift card of some sort. I always say I can’t afford to buy anything and that I won’t deal with scammers and they usually stop. It’s extremely hard to find a real sugar daddy, but the real ones will respect anything you ask and/or say.
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 48
Have I met scammers yes I have they start off nice and then they make an agreement with you about how you are going to receive your as they say allowance. We talk and then he started asking me for my account user name and password with the pin to my card I immediately said no because if your going to pay me what do you need all that information for
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 36
Handling such scammers is pretty intense and it takes a whole lot of maturity. I have met 2 now and it just really hurts that after the time invested, ots all a scam and they want your bank details; such as your username and password. Handling both of them, i simply just told them that it wasnt fair for them to try and rob a lady and if i had all the money in the world to be stolen, i sure won't be on this website. Its disappointing and as much as we all need to be careful, i think the Sudy team need to help eradicate the scammers through the ip addresses, you will know them
2023-01-17
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Sugar Baby / 28
I’ve met many Scammers being a Sugar Babe. There’s so many fake daddies out here it’s truest unbelievable. At one point in time when I was younger and dumb I gave my account info to a “daddy” and I.t turned into something HUGE to where my entire bank account had to be shut down. My advice is DONT give out your bank info and DONT share too much personal info unless you are sure that he is real .
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 29
my experience with scamners hasn't been too bad on sudy. just put that you won't give out bank info in your biography, and that should help weed some out. Also check for completed profiles although a lot of men seem to not like to fill the whole thing out. I guess that could also describe them as a person. They're always starting something but never finishing it.
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 35
Yes i have met many scammers, and it’s really sad what lengths people will go through to try and get all your information. You need to be aware, pay attention, and you always need to be careful never give out any bank information!! It’s so many other ways for people to send money or whatever else they are trying to do. Be aware and never let your guard down.!
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve dealt with a few scammers before on different apps, the best way to know is when they give you their number right away and ask for bank info. stay woke babies and stick with paypal, always ask for something small and if they refuse then drop them or if they come up with an excuse as to why they can’t give you the money through the app. also, makes sure to never play to pay they will use that against you and not pay you
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 28
I always google reverse search their picture. I’ve caught multiple people pretending to be someone not 100% famous but that you’d know they have money. One guy was pretending to be an architect from Texas but told me he lived in Oklahoma, when he asked me to get him an iTunes card I got weary, so I reverse searched his image and found this dudes Instagram page. I sent the screenshot to him and asked him if that was him and he said yes. So I gave him my instagram user name and told him to follow me back to prove it, haven’t heard from him since. Always trust your gut ladies.
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yes i have met my share of the scammers. I just hope it gets better. Honestly i dont really have any suggestions except dont trust anyone. Iv talked with some very promising guys and we talked for weeks and i thought that they were legitimate and that my search was over but unfortunately i was very wrong and they were simply scammers trying to get my bank info.
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have dealt with scammers and my most important advice for first time sugar babies is; DO NOT GIVE OUT FOR BANK INFORMATION OR PERSONAL INFORMATION AT ALL. Always use cash apps, Walmart to Walmart, or anything until you know your personal/bank info will not be stolen. Men will ask for your bank information, and you’re better off in just refusing that sugar daddy. A real sugar daddy shouldn’t be ONLY WANTING YOUR BANK INFORMATION. Do not trust so easily, babies!
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes, I have met a few scammers. Right away they asked for my banking information so I knew they weren’t real. It’s irritating because you want to meet someone that is real and actually wants to meet you and all they want is to scam you. I’m a sugar baby and I have almost been scammed by “sugar daddies”. I’ve learned to be very careful and never give out important information online.
2023-01-18
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Sugar Baby / 35
You guys need to ask more information from The men or Women that wants to be a Sd/Sm. It's waaayyyy to many frauds and scammers on this site. Every message I have received they all wanted my bank info right away. Or they will say kik me or text a certain number. Its really disgusting. You guys get hundreds of complaints. Yet you haven't done anything about it. It's very sad honestly.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 32
I think I just got scammed. I feel like an idiot but I really can't tell the difference. I have severe trust issues. Could someone please contact me to help me figure this out. In desperate need of help from an actual SD and not just someone who wants to take my information. I may just be an idiot all in all and that's fine. I am really naive considering I've been trying to do this for years.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 42
Scammers are everywhere! Don't ever give out your bank account information! There are other ways to receive your allowance. Also be aware of subtle differences regarding pictures... if they aren't smart enough, and of course they aren't . .. they use pictures of different guys! I have had two try to tell me their pictures weren't of two different guys, but skin tones, face shapes, and eye color can all be red flags if they are completrly different.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 33
I have encountered a few scams. The most obvious is those who want bank account information. I don't know about anyone else, but for me that is always a hard no. My routing and account number are private. Another is if they won't send a picture. A few have refused or will only send their profile picture. I like to ask for an extra so I can confirm who they are. I do the same to confirm who I am.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
One way I've dealt with scammers is to ask for a link to their personal Facebook. If they don't wish to send you one, it could mean they're lying about everything or just a few things. I understand that it can seem violating to share your FB, but if you're serious about this, it shouldn't be a problem. Perhaps I'm biased in that I barely post on FB, just share videos I find interesting.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
Yes, I have already met many scammers. You can always tell because they won’t really have a conversation with you. They’ll just give you their number and tell you to text them. And once you do, they’ll tell you your weekly allowance and immediately ask for your bank account information. What I do, is I don’t give in. I tell them that I don’t give out that information and tell them that I use PayPal. You can also ask for them to send you a small amount before you decide to send them anything.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 45
I was scammed. That experience was a learning lesson. At first I was angry.. Then I realized it was my own fault. I am trusting and honest. I believe in karma...they'll get theirs. Luckily it wasn't from my bank account. I now know PayPal, western union and cash app..of they're serious those means will do. I despise people trying to get over. I work hard for my money and if i choose to give it away that's on me....I don't want a dishonest person taking it
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’m sure all sugar babies have ran into scammers, the more beautiful the more scammers. It’s a price we pay. My advice to other babies is be assertive and be blunt. Real sugar dadies know their own limits. Even new ones have sort of an idea of what theyre looking for. You have the equal right to be selective and know what you want. Do not let the manipulate you until you’ve gotten what you needed.
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have encountered scammers plenty of times within the past month I've been on the site there was a specific time when I was speaking to a potential sugar daddy and he asked 4 my bank information social security number amongst other things I suggest to all newcomers or even those who don't know if it is a scammer asking to do something small for you but significant enough that'll show you you can trust him best of luck everyone
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 31
It’s tough being a sugar baby because Daddy’s want to make sure you are real and trustworkly as do us babies. Starting off as a sugar baby is a little weird at first but you’ll get use to it. One of the best tips to avoid scammer daddys is I would say, don’t do anything until you receive a small allowance. It ensures you that they are trustworthy daddy
2023-01-19
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Sugar Baby / 29
Yes being on sudy I have met a lot of scammers. I honestly don’t know what exactly do they get out of it. They are obvious to catch and all they do is waste time. I handle them by weeding them out. You have to be able to tell when someone is being real. Don’t give anyone you bank information. NOBODY NEEDS YOUR BANK ACCOUNT INFORMATION TO TRANSFER YOU MONEY. There are plenty of other ways to send money . That’s always the biggest red flag .
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
Every single last "Sugardaddy" i met on here have been scammers. THERE ARE TOO MANY SCAMMERS . FOR EXAMPLE (& THIS HAPPENED TO ME PURPOSELY & BY EXPERIENCE): This one guy was like im gonna put you to the test to see if i can trust you with the 2,000 dollars im gonna send & he told me to go in walmart to purchase $50 Apple Store cards (3x) thats 150 & he said if i pay for them & get them activated he will then put the money in my account the next morning . i feel like you're suppose to be a sugardaddy so why couldn't you have bought that yourself or sent the money to my account then tell me to go buy the 3cards.but before that I gave him my information to deposit the money in my account & he went in my account & moved my savings around to my checkings & it really scared me he didnt tell me he was doing all that. He was trying to scam me & scheme me out out of $150 , his intentions were to get those cards & not even give me the $2,000 in the morning. Im glad he didn't get me & i was smart enough to know it was a trick.
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 34
I met someone yesterday who demanded my banking password. Heck no!!! It is important to me that I keep an element of privacy and the best way to achieve that is through being able to say no and having guidelines. No sex until after at least ___ dates, pay only via prepaid card, bills, or PayPal. If anyone can't get on board w my rules they are not the sugar daddy for me. I am an equal participant in this relationship and I deserve an equal say.
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 27
Make sure you have a good look at there profile. For example make sure they have photos of themselves preferably more than one. If you have a nude/money arrangement make sure they send the money for you send anything. If it turns out they are a scammer you should just block and report them. Don’t do anything that you’re unsure of, make sure you know who you’re sending things to
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 29
Babies, don't give them your real number. Download a texting app and have a bank account that you either don't use for anything else or can cancel quickly. Also, ALWAYS hit that block and report button. Death threats are VERY real and NO JOKE, even if they dont live locally make sure they cant actually find out real information. Use a stage name, talk to them first and never do anything without accepting your allowance beforehand
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 31
I have been on sudy for a week. A lot of daddies have messaged me asking to start an arrangement and wanting to send me allowance weekly for a start. Then they ask for my account user and password to do that. I haven't even anyone any of my personal information. I have never heard of mobile money and I refuse to give my password to anyone. Be careful!
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 32
Plenty of scammers! They usually all start off with the same introduction message, and ask pretty much the same questions. The problem is when you ask for payment, and they say they can’t do PayPal, CashApp, or even Western Union. Then they ask you for your banking information and ask you to trust them. DO NOT TRUST THEM‼️ You don’t trust a soul with your banking information. If they can’t pay you with any of that or just mail you a check. DECLINE AND MOVE ON. A real sugar daddy wouldn’t ask for your banking information.
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 25
I met a couple of scammers. I avoid being scammed like this 1) Ask them to video chat!! 2) Choose a public place, where you are going to meet the first time 3) Never travel to his town for a first meet! 4)Have a list of questions you are going to ask 5) Feel free to tell him you are still not ready for an arrangement, and that you guys would have to meet again 6) Ask to get your money like this 500€ at the start and the rest of the payment partially every next time you meet 7) REMEMBER! Sugar Daddies are GENTLEMEN, he has to be ready to pay you in advance and wait for you in order to make you feel comfortable
2023-01-20
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have been on Sudy for about a week now. I've had multiple people claim to want to give me an allowance but they need my banking username and password which I found very sketchy and scary. Especially being new to this and not knowing what to expect I find it best to always double check and ask loads of questions So please always be cautious and go with your gut!
2023-01-21
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Sugar Baby / 26
To stay safe never give your full name,birthday,(put a day or year above the actual date)address or bank info. Use PayPal. And don’t be pressured into sending nudes or videos for money! Some sugar daddies will say it’s about trusting each other but if they seem sketchy never forget you can always find another sugar daddy that will be real and not a scam.
2023-01-21
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Sugar Baby / 50
Yes but this is pretty much the person that I've been on this site and I don't use no one I want I'll take my whole check and give it to him you know and I don't know how to accept someone being nice to me because I've been done like crap people cheating on me, just want my money to help pay bills and I just can't deal with it! I don't care to give my whole check you know I don't care to do a man's ass just shown how much I care
2023-01-21
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Sugar Baby / 31
Being new to the sugar daddy sugarbaby world is very complicated. Because I don’t know who’s being genuine or names in it to play with my emotions and my time. I have gotten scammed not out of my money but out of my time I was being told being new to the sugar daddy sugarbaby world is very complicated. Because I don’t know who’s being genuine or holes in it to play with my motions and my time. I have gotten scammed not out of my money, but out of my time. I was being told that I will be spoiled and swept off my feet and taken care of. But I was in the sucker to that because it didn’t sound genuine. So I played along and Long and behold I was being ignored and my time was wasted. My advice to not get it scam is to make sure that the person is verified make sure that their income is verified and make sure that the conversation with anyone. Some of the verified sugar daddies on here or not looking for only one sugar baby so sometimes you have to refrain from getting jealous, upset or needy. Just have fun and Enjoy!
2023-01-21
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Sugar Baby / 30
Don't be stupid you should usually get something up front and i even go as far as asking to Skype first bc at the end of the day you do want to get to know them id rather be scammed then murdered ....be very cautious you only have one life you never really know a person's motive .....ask alot of questions and if you feel any kind of suspicions just leave it alone and move on to the next big daddy
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 27
I believe that I have met scammers in the sugar life. Plenty at that. You won’t identify one off bat but sometimes you can. Like if their profile picture is of something random and they have absolutely no pictures of themselves. They usually sweet talk you in the beginning telling what they can do for you then they ask for your bank information like the login and password. That’s how you know it’s a for sure scammer. They wouldn’t need all that info just to send you money.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes I did. When you see a picture that is too good to be true is it most of the time a scam. I usually think that they are fake i take a screenshot of their profile pictue and search it through Google pictures. Also when the person has zero moments of his face and only of his wealth, you can make the assumption that it is fake. When they try asking you for nudes, ignore them. Sometimes they send a picture but it doesn't look like them.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
I’ve met a loooot of scammers. Most commonly they swear up and down if you send pictures (or whatever they’re requesting) they’ll send you double what they were going to pay at a later date. Stick to your guns! In every other business, you have to pay for the product before you receive it. Being a sugar baby and having a sugar daddy/mommy is the same.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 31
A scammer will most likely ask you about bank information before even meeting you. Major red flag. Never give out your personal info. As many other sb said before receive payment before any type of play as this is the most secure measure. There are so many other platforms to send and receive funds that are safe and secure, do not get fooled by scammers trying to manipulate someone in a desperate situation.
2023-01-22
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Sugar Baby / 29
Never give out your bank info... It's never worth it, always go with snapcash, PayPal, or any real payments and also make sure he will send u at least half the money as insurance that he's going to pay the rest later before you even start doing anything, I mean u might wanna send teaser pictures and that's fine but to send the real thing is a whole different story, so get your insurance before you do stuff...
2023-01-22