How to Deal with Scammers in Your Sugar Life? - 2
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Sugar Baby / 26
Oh absolutely I have met scammers. The best way to determine if they are a scammer is to see if they will settle with giving you a little money without getting much in return. If they really want you and aren't trying to scam you, they small allowance isn't much for them if they get you in return. If they are scammers, they run away fast and not even do the little deeds.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 31
Yes I met some . They asked for my bank info etc . But never ever give your bank info and other personal stuff out . Plus don’t send any nudes or something before they didn’t send you money . And always ask proofs if they are persons because lot of scammers just can get pictures from internet . And don’t buy them iTune cards or something like that .
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve met a lot of scammers who pretend to have a lot of money but just want me for my body. Shame to those men because it’s harsh on us when we are just trying to find someone to enjoy company. I love being a sugar baby but men like that really set me back. It makes me wonder if that’s what all men think of sugar babies if it’s just for sex. But there are still plenty of amazing men out there who don’t treat us that way. And we love them.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 30
I’m sure we’ve all encountered a scammer. They usually will write you first, tell you how they are interested in your profile and that you should talk, then they will leave a bogus number and ask you to text them. If you decided to fall for the first trap they will if not immediately tell you they want to send you money, but they need all this personal information that isn’t needed. Don’t give them any SS #, no online bank information, no credit card information. In order to make a successful deposit all you need is a account # ...NO PERSONAL INFORMATION. If you encounter a scammer, ignore them. No real sugar daddy will hand over their phone number and give out money to a complete stranger. There is no logic in that!
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 33
Yes , it seems there is more than a few. In my experience i find it important to hold on to your personal info such as bank and credit card info, as for snapcash of paypal ect if they are a scammer they will want your personal info. Its important for sugars to put safety above anything else . safety for our mind body and money . take care ladys :) and good luck
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 28
Yes I have and scams are the biggest threat right now ..almost everyone on these sites has I countered a scamper before And I suggest that we be smart enough this is a world of technology before we decide on meeting someone in person from the sites we should make sure we have a proper video chat am sure enough erroneous using this app has a smart phone and there is no excuse for refusing a video chat .. if someone refuses video chat just ,now there is high proximity the person is trying to scam you
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 33
A good way to indicate if someone is a scammer is if there's always an excuse when asking for a small financial favor. A really Daddy that's interested in you will not mind. Always trust your gut and don't let yourself be manipulated. If something is expected of you, something should be expected of them, period. Be wary of any "promises" that are constantly made but never followed through with.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 32
Yes I have. Honestly they are usually pretty easy to spot. 9 times outta 10 they're going to ask for bank account information. Their reason usually being that they will add you to their "payroll". My advice is...DO NOT GIVE OUT PRIVATE/CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION DO NOT PASS GO DO NOT COLLECT 200 DOLLARS. lol In all seriousness though, please don't fall for that. There are plenty of ways to send money that do not require bank account information. Utilize them. Just use common sense and you'll be fine!
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
Yup! Every sugar baby has met a scammer and it sucks how someone just wastes your time! If you're a new sugar baby be strong you need to let them know NOTHING IS FREE!! No matter how cute or how rich they say they're nothing is free. I've only met a couple og scammers on sudy and i just block them since blocking and cutting all contact with them is the way to go.
2022-11-22
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met plenty of scammers and I’m fairly new on here. Beware of them asking for you mobile bank information and what bank you bank at. Always do transactions through PayPal and if they can’t do that then it’s not worth it. At least with PayPal you can dispute on there what happens with your account. No matter how good the money sounds be smart babies. These men will make you feel good and make you feel like you’re getting a good allowance or what have you but do not fall for it. I repeat DO NOT FALL FOR IT. We are all worth more than what we probably get from an allowance and we shouldn’t have to deal with scammers but unfortunately that comes with the life of sugaring. Be patient and don’t take the first offer you get just because the price sounds right. The right sugar daddy or mama will come your way. Trust me you’ll be losing a lot more than that price that sounds like music to your ears or your wallets.
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 38
i have gootten message below srveral times. i have also responded with please send to my paypal account. I will need your online login details(Login ID), your username and password. the only reason why i need your Login details is for capturing on the front and back of the check for mobile deposit and once payment is confirmed, you can change your details.
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have certainly met scammers When I first started many men were asking for pictures and of course I would do that first because I wanted to gain their trust but turns out it would backlash at me and I would receive no money no gifts or anything they would just keep asking for more and I would never get paid another thing that people do know is that they've been asking for your bank information because their bank will not allow them to venmo or whatever the reason Maybe this is complete bull crap a lot of the time they will post on your picture all I would love to spoil you but the phone number ladies this is a complete scam you can text the person to see maybe if they are legit but if they ask for your bank information just go on to the next one is not worth it
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 30
In my week on Sudy, only 1 of the 6 people I was contacted by was real. Rule of thumb: don't use your cell number until you meet and it's all good and he is who he says and holds up his end. Use an spp like Kik so you can block them and if at the most you just make a new account. It's obvious who the scammers are. 1.) They usually aren't verified. They'll be premium, but don't let that and a picture fool you. 2.) Their initial message, it's all one big blurb where they right out of the gate give you an allowance number. The one guy who contacted me that was real put no value. Just told me about him, what he wanted and where I could reach him. 3.) I specifically waited to message each man, at least two days, and all but the one who ended up being real responded within 5 minutes of my message. Call that fluke if you want, but it's not. 4.) After some banter back and forth about you and how much they'll help you, they'll say they want to send you your first installment of allowance but they explicitly say they need your bank details. THIS IS BULLSHIT. DO NOT DO IT. 5.) They'll usually fight you if you try and tell them you don't wanna do it, and they'll send you "proof", being a bank statement for some ridiculous union Swiss bank account for some fool named Mike that had millions in it, or along those lines. THEYRE STILL FAKE. I got THE SAME STATEMENT from TWO DIFFERENT DUDES in 10 MINUTES. At this point, you block them. There's nothing more you can do unfortunately.
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 35
I met a lot of scammers every day..every day i deal with kind of persons,but there is nothing what i can do,just blocking them..these kind of persons will always be around us..and i think that scammers and haters are the same persons..frustrated people because they have been rejected.sow..girls if you feel like scammers..block them imediatly! ;) :)
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 40
Yes I sure have a story to tell!! I've still not had my first sugar daddy yet! I almost had one .. so I thought .. I met him on another site we talked met had dinner he got me a new outfit n had my nails done . Maybe spent 100 I'm guessing .. well few days go by I thought we hit it off well he ask for my bank account info me being over trusting people I did .. well huge mistake I didn't get allowance I got robbed!! Then next four guys I spoke with has tried convince me to send them money and promise pay me back n never heard back when I said I was struggling myself due to last one robbing me
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 26
Honestly, this may sound a rude but DONT BE STUPID! If in you feel in your gut that somethings too good to be true it probably is. If he's you sugar daddy you shouldn't have to buy things to "prove that you're serious" because that's scam city darlings. We're all here for that sugar just don't let some scammy creep ruin your fun! Find your daddy and have fun :)
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 30
of course they’ll be scammers , but you have to avoid them as much as possible. if they ask for bank info that’s a red flag . so don’t even respond when you see that , if it’s to good to be true 9 times 10 it is . and they may manipulate you that they’re going to send the allowance that way and that’s the only way but don’t do it . after just report them
2022-11-23
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Sugar Baby / 35
I've only msgd with scammers so far, my mistake in the long run .. I know now what to accept and talk to. Two people I've talked to and both scammed me and my friends account. It was nice but not for long after they stopped contact. Definately got to steer clear from those ones .. I'm very new to this and a trusting person which made me an easy target :(
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
Fortunately, I have not come into contact with any scammers on this app. I have heard that people will try to ask for your bank info but with so many cash apps out these days there is no need to exchange any bank information. People need to be well aware that you should not give out your bank information on this app by any means. If anyone is tried they should message the customer care with who is trying to scam so they will be removed from the app.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are scammers everywhere, it's part of life. I'd say just keep vigilant and trust your gut. Don't immediately hand out your number to every guy or gal who says that they want to spoil you, it's just not possible that they're all genuine. Also if they're not willing to do small things for you financially, they're likely just playing you in order to get what they want.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 57
Well I have yet to be someone's sugar baby but isn't the whole concept of accepting and agreeing is trusting ?I personally don't want someone to have an entrance in my banking or my credit cards.sugar daddy's want simplicity w.discretion in money exchange. I prefer something jus as convienent w .much discretion as well.sugar baby's are not selling insurance here it's a mutual adult compromise.moneygram or PayPal are jus my ideas in knowing if one session doesn't work out after you agree no one loses .after all we are here to please but business established simple .
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 32
It’s a bit tricky. I’ve have men of course ask from for my address, account and routing number and continuously told me they were trust worthy. It’s a big no! They shouldn’t be pushy about giving you money. One guy sent me his bank statement, ID, and his “canceled” PayPal card. All which had his name on it. He just constantly asked for my bank information saying that’s the only way he could give me money. Smh
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
Oh yes! Scammers always ask for your bank information and tell you that because they're overseas or because of the bank account they're using they can't use Pay Pal or apps like Squarecash. They will argue "please trust me" or "I'm an honest person". Please do not fall for that crap! There are so many ways to send money without having to compromise your financial safety.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 27
In this kind of atmosphere, it's very important not to be naive. Just because someone seems nice and caring doesn't mean they are. For example: if you use paypal or something of the sort and they ask for your bank information, don't feel you have to do it just because they're nice to you. It is very dangerous to give out that info to someone you don't know very well. Just use common sense and you'll stay safe
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 31
Scammers are no fun, I have came along a couple since I have been on sudy. The best way to know is if they send you a long life story and include thier phone number or ask for nudes right away. Don't give them what they want untill you get what you want! They will ask for personal information about your banking such as your username and password. Be careful ladies. Use your smarts! Happy hunting ;)
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 28
If they ask you for your bank information, do not give it to them. That's the most common scamming. Another one is that they need some type of gift card and they will give you more money. There are multiple ways to be scammed but the biggest one is when they say they will add you to their payroll and have to speak to their bank officer, something like that. It's just a big lie. Use PayPal or some other alternative to PayPal like the cash app . If they keep asking for your bank info, then it's a scam.
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 32
I’m new to this and i already know I’m getting scammed he said I sparked his interest he will take good care of me he sent me his number then deleted his profile so that right there tell me something’s not right my advise already would be don’t give out your real number right off hand download a free texting app to make sure and request money quick! Just to see if it’s real good luck SBBS 😀
2022-11-24
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Sugar Baby / 26
Normalmente los scammers piden fotos antes de mandar el dinero para “saber que están comprando” no te lo creas. Si te pide alguna información personal como DNI, cuenta bancaria, pasaporte.. NO se lo des. Pueden manipularte con eso. Desgraciadamente yo estuve en una situación así. Los sugar daddy’s de verdad o “los compradores” no se toman a mal pagar antes.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 29
I’ve never met a legit sugar daddy yet since I’ve been on here. The scammers either ask for banking information, an iTunes card, or to buy a vanilla credit card. They always give the excuse that they’re overseas for military things and can’t update their phone. I’ve encountered at least 20 scammers since I’ve been on here. I have never talked to a real legit sugar daddy yet.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 29
I have met a lot of scammers. They try to make you feel dumb or they get offensive when you don’t do it there way. Never give out your bank info. They need to know a sugar daddy gives allowance. Don’t give them what they want until you see money first because they will try to see pictures then not give you what you want. It’s all about trust just stay smart and find who’s real
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
Yes, there are scammers out there. Sadly, it's both parties. Sugar babies and sugar daddies can both be scammers so watch out! NEVER give out your bank information. If they are real and honesty, they won't need it. Also, when you start speaking to a sb or sd make sure they're real. Ask them to prove themselves somehow so you know you're not talking to some robot and wasting your time! Just be safe and have fun!
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 26
I have met a lot of scammers just wanting sex or nudes or just to waste your time with out doing anything at all. My suggestion would be just to ask questions until you feel like things are turning left and if he only wants you to do the things he wants and nothing for you it's time to block and move on because he isn't trying to be a sugar daddy he's just using you for sex.
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
You will come up with scammers, I’m new to this and already encountered one. Do not give any of your personal information, and if they ask you for it continuously just let it go. Block them, and move on. Be careful, make sure they are giving you the money before you meet up, and make sure if you do meet up it is in a public place for your own safety
2022-11-25
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve met scammers before. They ask to meet in an arranged place and either don’t turn up or they’re a complete catfish. Sometimes these situations can be scary and you have to really think about what to do. Is there anywhere to run? Can you level with this person? Those are just my experiences but I know many people have dealt with scams online, especially the SDs and SMs who believe they can trust a SB but it results in loss of money. I believe that verification is the key to less scams. Stay safe! X
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 34
I have definitelty met a scammer. He wanted my bank account and routing numbers, which i could kind of understand. But he also wanted the username and password to my online banking account as well as any security questions and answers, which is unnecessary. Why would he need complete access to my money. Needless to say i didnt give him all that info. He even had the nerve to be offended when i called him out for being a scammer.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 30
Be aware of someone who isn’t making much sense or forces you to use a bank account instead of a cash app. They usually ask for your login information and your full name too. Don’t do it. They will definitely scam you and ruin your name or credit score. Try to get them to send your allowance through a secure place like pay pal. If not, just let it go
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’ve met a few scammers in my time as a sugarbaby but there’s been easy way to avoid all of that and all you have to do is ask them to send you something financially small nothing too wild maybe a few bucks just to make sure they’re legit it’s safer that way and easier and you don’t have to deal with all the trust issues after that I’ve done it before and it turned out great
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
I've seen plenty of sb's give their bank info out!! Why?! Beat way to scam. Never give out your information. I've had scammers left and right saying mine is the best profile ever and there's nothing compared and come right out and ask for bank info for mobile deposits. No thanks. Or to buy an iTunes card for $50 so their accountant can add me to their payroll. My thoughts, they're going to ask for the numbers and take the 50. You say No,they get super mad. Don't be dumb people.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 32
Omg I just had my first experience with a scammer and I am SO glad I trusted my gut!! First of all, He claimed he would direct deposit money into my bank account BIG RED FLAG, then got mad when I insisted he give me money on PayPal. His grammar got worse and worse. Then when he called me (thinking that if we just talked I would suddenly trust him!? AS IF) he sounded Indian AF, NOT like his picture at ALL, and said “this is Joe” when the profile said Donald...BE VIGILANT LADIES
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
I’ve dealt with scammers across all kinds of sites. And this one is no different. My rule of thumb is, if the person gives out their number in the first message, be cautious. If the person sends a message that doesn’t state anything specific in your profile, be cautious. If the message looks like it could be sent to anyone at all and not just you, be cautious because it most likely has been sent to countless other people. It’s difficult to notice it at first. But once you see enough scammers, you start to see the those small warning signs.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 36
Avoiding scammers can be very easy to notice. As sugar babies we are automatically targeted by low lifes who don't belong in the lifestyle. They prey on sites like this because they feel we are desperate and sometimes we may be in desperate situations but we aren't dumb. So the first thing is to analyze how they are typing to you. A generous or wealthy man will be on point with grammar and spelling. Check his profile and see if it's filled out with enough details. Someone who isn't interested in the search is usually looking for "quickies" or are fraudulent accounts. Ignore and block any suspicious accounts. If you are asked questions about personal information before even getting to know each other report the account. Ask questions that requires a real "human" response. If you get a reply that doesn't answer the question or doesn't make sense just ignore and move on. Patience is key on sugar dating. I've be in the lifestyle for a very long time and you'll drop 40 bad eggs before you scramble one good one. Good luck ladies stay safe and smart.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 27
My best answer is just block them. There is no point to yell at them or be rude they are faking a whole lifestyle thats sad itself. so best way is to ignore those people. A real sugar daddy won't ask you for your bank account log in and password, and there can always be an agreement that you will use pay pal or another cash app. If someone wants to force you to do something you are not comfortable with best bet is to drop that person.
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 38
If things don’t seem right don’t and I mean don’t do it. Remember your first instance is always correct. There’s PayPal, cash app, zelle to get small allowances, before meet ups, pictures etc. You should never give out your bank account information. (Account, and routing number) Small allowance can be sent numerous of ways. Be smart SugarBabies....
2022-11-26
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Sugar Baby / 35
I have definitely met scammers. There are certain warning signs to look out for. Warning signs such as asking for your bank info, someone who doesn't bother to pay for the app so they can actually message you back yet send requests to see your private pictures, people who waste your time by saying they wabt to meet but then flake. I've found the easiest way to deal with scammers is to avoid them when you can. Look for the red flags etc and once you realize they are a scammer disengage as quickly as possible. I don't argue or try to prove a point. If they harass me about it I block and report them.
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 33
I have no idea as i am mew to this app, but i guess there is scammers and i will have to be more careful with how i do this. if i find a scammer i think i will have to report them because they want to see pictures and goodies without paying anything. the point of this website i believe is for a sugar daddy to help a sugar baby out as long as she pleasures him
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 34
As soon as I made my Sudy account I got a message from a guy saying I’m interested but I only want to send money to your bank account so I need your info I don’t do cash App or PayPal or Venmo, and my friend who made a sudy the day before got the same message from the same guy I’m like complete scam, I wrote him and told him I was not interested. I have seen YouTube stories of people being scammed by giving there bank account info out and then end up with an overdrawn account by thousands and having to pay it back and getting the bank account taken away afterwards. So I watch out closely for scammers.
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 30
I have met so many scammers on here. I think the way you should deal with it is remove them off your page if they immediately send you a question and their number they’re probably a scam. I’ve heard a lot of people actually switching bank accounts for some SD but don’t do that. If they won’t send you a small amount first and then you can start sending some nudes then cut them off
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 33
I have dealt with my fair share of scammers. The best advice is to NEVER give out banking information. There’s other ways to send money. Some things to look out for when dealing with a scammer: using bad grammar, asking for banking info, they won’t take PayPal or any other money sending service, asking for your bank login and username. Be careful and stay safe and alert when dealing with these scammers. Always block and report them, because they may be using multiple profiles.
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 33
yes I have . the ones that pretend they will take care of you and have all this money and do a WHOLE LOT OF TALKING, but then when it comes down to really putting your words into actions, you find out it’s all a bunch of balogna. been there plenty of times , or the ones on apps that give you a number and tell you text them if you want $450 a week .
2022-11-27
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Sugar Baby / 38
Always watch how they talk to you if they ask you to do anything financially then be careful also no picture is another way....be careful because scammers are every where. I have almost been scammed twice. In both situations they asked me for my full name DOB my social security number and address. The other situation they also asked for my bank name and routing number to transfer funds
2022-11-27