When Would You Like To Meet Your Sugar Daddy After Online Chat?

202 Answers

Sugar Baby / 44

When we both feel comfortable with one another and are ready for that step and there is no way to say for sure. May start talking to someone and we click great so why not see if we still click the same way in person. Not on here for just a computer relationship. But there is no rush either, to fast can mess things up. Patience is a virtue that is good yet sometimes can be a hindrance to.

2022-11-14
Sugar Baby / 32

Meeting for the first time is one of the mist specialist moments in the relationship with a daddy! That the moment they really look back on. I feel like if you click and want things to moce forward then meeting is very important! For me if the conversation and ideas od what we want are not the same them i proling the meeting. Over all when you click you just click.

2022-11-14
Sugar Baby / 26

I would like to meet my sugar daddy after a week of talking if I'm interested in them and I know they are interested in me and the vibe is right and we're both comfortable, then I will be willing to meet in a public place that would be best and hope to feel some chemistry while with him, if it doesn't go that well in person then he probably isn't the right one

2022-11-15
Sugar Baby / 27

You should meet with your sugar daddy at least a week or two later in a opened surrounding so that you can get a feel off them and if you really feel comfortable being a sugar baby. Meeting them will allow you to find out what exactly he wants and if you are down to agree with his requests. The first meet up you should never go alone but be alone when you all are talking. Safety first !

2022-11-15
Sugar Baby / 27

Well that depends on the relationship that has been established. If it behooves the sd to simply have an online presence in his sb life then meeting may not be in the cards. However in general, I would wait between two weeks and a month of getting to know him to meet him in person. One thing that is definite is that sb have protect themselves. Scammers don't want to waste a month of time to meet when there is an easier target. And... serial killers and whatnot...

2022-11-15
Sugar Baby / 34

Minimum, a week. I’m not into the endless emails, texts or phone calls. I’d rather discuss details quickly and throughly and then meet if both parties are on the same page. If we aren’t then there is no point in meeting. I think that discussing it first puts the pressure away when you meet and it is less likely to feel like a business transaction type thing instead of an arranged date.

2022-11-17
Sugar Baby / 46

Initially I would say at least a week or two but it really depends on the chemistry over the phone. I wouldn't rush it, I'd like to let things occur naturally. Why force it when it doesn't benefit anybody and I feel you would miss out because both sides could feel shy and awkward. By letting things run its course you could really get to know someone.

2022-11-18
Sugar Baby / 44

After few weeks conversation on phone or online chat... I would like to meet my sugar daddy in a public place. If he let me choose I would be happy. If we both feel better with the meeting we can then arrange another place for the next meeting.. It's would take me few meeting before I would agree to go for private place or holiday with my sugar daddy

2022-11-18
Sugar Baby / 36

I think when everyone feels comfortable with one another, because it's a very sensitive and intimate type of relationship is very personal. You know feeling close to someone without having the necessary time to actually feel that comfortable and close. I think that a sugar daddy and sugarbaby should communicate quite often Before meeting maybe two weeks to a month

2022-11-19
Sugar Baby / 33

I feel there is no distinguishing time frame. Its whenever you feel comfortable or safe with that person. Availability and location play a huge factor as well.. All in all..just follow your heart! Sometimes you can know someone for years and not have the same level of comfort with them as you can with someone you have only Viber with online. Time isn't the factor to me, I believe its the connection.

2022-11-21
Sugar Baby / 28

Depends on how comfortable you are with them. I actually met up with mine the next day because he was so egar to meet up with me. I felt a better connection being around him person rather through text and phone calls. Whenever you’re comfortable to meet them is the right time. When you know you’re ready to purse it then jump on it. Communication and chemistry is key

2022-11-21
Sugar Baby / 26

I feel like perhaps it would be in both the sugar daddy's and the sugar baby's best interest to talk online or over the phone before seeing or meeting up with each other in person. Just to get a general idea of what they're like and their compatibility with your needs and wants. First dates can be awkward so it would be nice to slightly 'know' the person before seeing them.

2022-11-21
Sugar Baby / 28

I would say like months down tha line or we never he will be available to come see me and have time for me in order to get that time we would have to communicate with others yo know wen we can get to see each other because if I do yea I would want it to be a couple months at least like almost a year and a couple months or prob jus til I'm ready because I'm really shy and even though I don't act like it I really am but I have a sexy person alot and a fiesty personality and a mean and angry and sad and happy and if I dnt want to or dnt feel like seeing him at the moment I would prefer he respect tht but yea I would say like a few months almost a year

2022-11-24
Sugar Baby / 48

I think deciding on when to meet needs to be a mutual thing. If things are going really well after a week or do then yes go for it, but if there is still some uncertainty on either side then meeting needs to hold off just a bit longer. I would definitely say though by a month or month and a half you should definitely meet face to face. That's the only way to really feel the connection if it's there.

2022-11-24
Sugar Baby / 30

After you get to know them! I don’t believe you should meet with them after texting one time. Sometimes people seem one way through text but are completely different in person, it’s important to ask those tough questions and really see where they’re head is st . That way you’re not in s situation that you really don’t not want to be in and that can be harmful towards you.

2022-11-24
Sugar Baby / 25

I would probably meet my sugar daddy after whatever point I felt comfortable, and the sugar daddy has shown to be a prime candidate. I don’t want to waste my time, nor do I want to be treated badly, so I wouldn’t meet my sugar daddy until he’d proven to me that he’s worth it, and is someone I’d feel comfortable around. Another thing is figuring out arrangements, as I’d like to have those figured out before we meet.

2022-11-25
Sugar Baby / 33

I think the sooner, the better. Simply because he needs fo find what he is looking for and so does the sugar baby. Also, you meet in person, get familiar with eachother, body language is important, you have to see if both parties are serious about what they are looking for within eachother. At most maybe a week after connecting online but even as soon as same day or next day

2022-11-25
Sugar Baby / 27

For every situation, it could be different. But my main rule is after 2-4 weeks is when I would typically start thinking of meeting up. Sometimes longer, sometimes shorter, it all just depends. My main focus during that time is to see if there’s any real connection, to make sure we’re both on the same page and so on. I feel like just jumping into it from the get go would either be risky or just a big mistake if it doesn’t turn out like you had hoped.

2022-11-26
Sugar Baby / 32

I think a month after communicating is acceptable. This is still a form of online dating and its crazy out here. You have to feel comfortable with the person you plan to meet with so that the vibe can still be a mutual one. Me personally like to get to know the important things about a person because it tells me if they are genuinely who they are trying to come off to be

2022-11-26
Sugar Baby / 46

I think after a couple of weeks talking, one will know if they are ready to meet the SD in person. If it takes longer then that, the “relationship” will never work out. I will not meet someone after only a day or two of speaking. So I would say for sure between one and two weeks after you start talking. That is only if you are talking daily. Don’t be needy or desperate though.

2022-11-28
Sugar Baby / 28

I think the right time to meet my sugar daddy is when I feel comfortable enough. After one month I will decide if I want to see him. This is when he shows me he has respect for women and understands me. I want to talk about our thoughts, the world we live in, racism. He has to be smart and learn me stuff. When he does this, I know I'm ready for the first date.

2022-11-28
Sugar Baby / 35

It depends on how comfortable I feel with the person first, I wouldn't mind meeting someone in a public place after a few weeks of online talking. People just have to remember to use common sense and be smart about situations. Always initially meet in public and if at any time you feel uncomfortable, call it a night. Remember to never let anyone pressure you into a situation that you don't feel comfortable with!!

2022-11-28
Sugar Baby / 41

I think around 3-5 says after initial contact anyone can vibes online but you'll know that you n your sugar are for realz hitting it off ... Meet publicly and see what happens if you all actually click... Honestly if my daddies are for real about it n wanna meet sooner my opinion is that deserve to choose how soon they wanna meet their sugar in my eyes daddies get what daddies want

2022-11-28
Sugar Baby / 30

I think maybe after 1-3months, by then you should know at least enough to meet. In that time you should be able to trust one another and have a bond. Also, there should be a mutual respect for each other. You may not want to wait too long to meet your sugar daddy, because you don’t want him to lose interest. With this bond you alway wantt to keep things interesting and fun.

2022-11-29
Sugar Baby / 35

I would like to meet my daddy as soon as possible after communication because when they joke around or if they started fooling around that's how you know that either they're not real or they're just all about games and they're just torn with you and just trying to get as much as I can from you for free and you're the one left without nothing and I don't think that's a fair thing so I think that if they start receiving request that they ask for right away then they should be ready to physically see their sugar baby right away

2022-11-29
Sugar Baby / 33

I feel the initial meeting should happen as soon as two people feel comfortable with each other. Once we’ve established goals and the expectations of both parties, I don’t see the point of waiting if we’re both serious about pursing a relationship. Personally, I’m always down for dinner and drinks in a public place because I think online communication is very constructed and I prefer an organic flow of conversation to happen. I think delaying an initial meeting just wastes time because if we don’t “click” in person all the typing and messaging is pointless.

2022-11-30
Sugar Baby / 31

I feel about a week or so is good. If you feel comfortable meeting up then go for if. And especially if you feel that connection! But most of the time when you meet someone really nice and fun to talk to you are really eager to meet and maybe they are busy or maybe a lil nervous so whatever you all decide together is great. Just getting to know some for a week is cool with me

2022-12-01
Sugar Baby / 26

I think it really depends on how you have been communicating. I know that I would be comfortable meeting up after 2 weeks or so, however others might feel like that's too long or they should wait longer I order to get to know someone, because it's all online. It also depends on your intentions, if you want to have sex immediately or if that's you're only goal than it would definitely change how long you're talking before meeting eachother.

2022-12-01
Sugar Baby / 29

I’d like to meet him a week or two after first communication takes place. I personally really enjoy getting to get to know someone before meeting them in person, however fscetime and skype would be utilized to ensure i wasn’t meeting with a scammer or being catfishes (know many friends who have been catfished, definitely not wanting to deal with that!)

2022-12-03
Sugar Baby / 35

I'd like to wait until I'm sure he's real and is who he says he is. Obviously chat online for a week or so and move on to a phone call before meeting in public. Make sure I get a good vibe and would be totally comfortable meeting. I don't want to make him wait to long but I want to safe too. You never who is out there and who is posing as someone else. Never meet at his house or yours! Always in public to start. Be safe babies!

2022-12-03
Sugar Baby / 28

I feel like you should meet with your sugar daddy whenever you’re comfortable and when you feel like you know enough about him to meet. You both should definitely meet in a public place the first couple of times or until you feel comfortable being in private with him. Everybody is different and everybody moves at their own pace so don’t feel pressured to rush into things. It’s about both parties being comfortable.

2022-12-04
Sugar Baby / 28

I would love to meet my sugar daddy after at least a week or so. I feel after a week you can get a decent feel of how the situation would be, and if you’d like to pursue (this goes for either side of the spectrum). But it all comes down to relative distance and the availability for both parties. Having a LD sugar daddy wouldn’t be an issue, but neither would meeting up with one.

2022-12-04
Sugar Baby / 29

For a first time meeting them it would have to be at a restaurant or club or bowling alley or anywhere in public. I'm a cautious person. A few times I would meet people offline and they would be genuine people and I'm still here so maybe it's good luck that I've been meeting genuine people. I would like to do a bowling alley for sure though. I suck at bowling and we both have something to laugh at.

2022-12-04
Sugar Baby / 30

It really just depends on the vibe or presence the person gives off when texting or talking on the phone or through social media. If you pay attention to the person's behavior then you will either understand and commit or you will find out it's not what you want. If your new to this then it's gonna be difficult. But trust you instincts and make a decision. You can wait but not to long. Try to be understanding but logical a the same time haha.

2022-12-04
Sugar Baby / 41

I think you should me in person whenever you guys feel comfortable enough too. Sometimes it takes a day or 2 or sometimes it takes longer. I’m sure it will take longer if you guys live in different states. Ive been asked to meet for coffee after a day it which was cool meeting in public and I felt comfortable from the beginning. So it just depends on the timing and people.

2022-12-05
Sugar Baby / 35

Within a few days of talking on the phone and messaging you should be able to get a feel for him or her and see if you’re comfortable. You will already know whether or not you are ready to see each other. You won’t havr any uncomfortable feeling it will be more like a rush of excitement. Mmmm love that feeling. Just let it flow. Everything else still fall naturally

2022-12-05
Sugar Baby / 27

I think that the best time to meet is anywhere between 2-4 weeks. For me, I know that it takes me a while to feel comfortable enough talking to somebody online to meet up with them, and it’s not the fact that I’m shy, it’s the fact that if we’re not compatible over the phone, then what’s going to happen face to face? Anything under a week is a little too soon for me. And I’ve had experiences where daddies would try to meet the very same day that they messaged me, and I think that is a absolute no-go and quite frankly it makes me raise an eyebrow.

2022-12-05
Sugar Baby / 27

I would want to chat for a little bit maybe a few days before going out on a date with my SD, but that's only if the live close by. When they're a little further out though I would want to chat for a few weeks perhaps unless special circumstances apply thatd be the only time I'd make a an acception for traveling farther out to see my SD in another state.

2022-12-06
Sugar Baby / 26

When you feel completely ready. For me, that would be ~1 month. You should feel some sense of security and comfort before you meet a stranger for the first time— whether you think you know someone or not, there’s always a chance that who you’re with aren’t who they say they are. If you can before or during your first time meeting, have them verify their identity and whatever else you may worry about.

2022-12-06
Sugar Baby / 31

I feel like a good time will be simply when you feel comfortable. You don’t want to wait too long to meet in person but also want to get to know each other first. I’m willing to meet pretty soon but definitely give it some time maybe about a month. I will meet sooner if I feel comfortable to. I’d definitely meet somewhere public and take it from there.

2022-12-08
Sugar Baby / 27

If I'm being fully honest.. I would wanna meet them but i also won't.. I'd rather have everything online and in pictures and videos.. but if it ever came up in conversation I'd probably say yes whenever I have time because I'm always busy and plus if I met them id have to sneak around and doing that is a lot of work.. but anyway whenever both of us are comfortable then maybe

2022-12-09
Sugar Baby / 35

Well I feel you should take the time to get to know your sugar daddy first. At least a few weeks to a month before meeting your sugar daddy in person. But you should diffently meet your sugar daddy in person. Becuase you want to make sure your sugar daddy are who they claim to be and that you two are on the same person. And picture can only show you so much.

2022-12-09
Sugar Baby / 30

Personally I feel like After at least 2 weeks of communication it's time to meet. I feel like after 2 weeks both of you have made up your mind about the other and can tell if it's worth pursuing. When meeting for the first time it should always be a public place. You should always have your own money with you in case everything doesn't go as planned.

2022-12-09
Sugar Baby / 37

I have no issue with them meeting me whenever they wish, however. I have a rule. No one meets me without my husband, and if my husband doesn't approve then no. My husband is my protector and makes sure the men won't hurt me. That has been in any sexual aspect of our marriage. From swinging, to poly, to this. But i guess it is for each individual to decide for themselves.

2022-12-11
Sugar Baby / 26

A week or two should be enough. Even after that, I would only be comfortable meeting in a public area the first time. It takes a lot of trust. You don’t wanna meet up with a potential murderer or something crazy like that. But if you connect right from the get-go, and you genuinely trust that they aren’t gonna kill you, meet whenever you want! As long as you are comfortable.

2022-12-11
Sugar Baby / 43

I need to feel safe. In the past I was a victim of a very violent sexual assault. I would be willing to meet my sugar daddy after anywhere from a few days to a few months of communicating depending on the form of communication. If he was willing to video chat with me then I would be much more open to meeting him in a short time period. However if he will not communicate with me through video chat so that I could see that he is a real person then I don't think I would be willing to meet him at all

2022-12-11
Sugar Baby / 27

I personally feel like you should wait until you feel comfortable with them and get to know them first to where you will comfortable being around them. usually for me it’s about or month or so. also make sure you meet your sugar daddy in a public area for the first couple times, don’t meet in private right away. a lot of people are not who they say they are

2022-12-12
Sugar Baby / 25

I have never actually met anyone here but if I did and we had good conversation and we both feel comfortable with each other I would definitely want to meet as soon as possible. I would travel too or have him travel to me. Chemistry would dictate all of that. I am curious about what the SDs say about that. I have no clue what to expect but Id like to meet someone great...its definitely not all about being spoiled. I want to make a real friend. I hope thats not unrealistic.

2022-12-13
Sugar Baby / 33

After two months will be oki 👉👈 , because I want to know him first 🙈 I'm looking for a special man 👨 I want someone sweet 🍬, gentleman 😻 and serious 🙆 to make make me feel safe and I think two months is enough time for talk and know if I want to meet this person, hopefully I will to 😍 if you are looking for a sugar princess baby send me a message pls 😚😚😚

2022-12-14
Sugar Baby / 27

I THINK UOU SHOULD MEET A Sugar daddy in a public place when you are comfortable to meet him. If he putting pressure on you to meet him then that’s a no no something is fishy about that. I met my SD 2 weeks after we talked went out for lunch during his lunch period and it went okay second date I got to see his place now we on a 3rd date we much more comfortable with each other

2022-12-14

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