Why Have You Started Sugar Dating?
231 Answers
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Sugar Baby / 30
I'd say both. I'm only 22 years old. I'm young. Going to college this summer or fall possibly. Currently making $10/hr. It's hard to have enough money to be able to get what I want aside from paying my needs first. A REAL sugar Daddy would definitely help! Haven't had the chance to actually meet a real one in person. Most of them just want sex which is not surprising. Lol
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
To be truthful it’s a little bit of both. I love the companionship of a matured soul but I also love someone who willing to take care of me at the same time. I’m interested in arranging something with someone that is not only completely aware of the status of the relationship but completely accepts it. Which is why I decided to join this site in the first place.
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 32
It’s more of an emotional need. I usually go for older men anyway, but finding one that appreciates your time and you as a person is even better. Being gifted and spoiled with an “allowance” is what makes these type of relationship so addicting. I’ve noticed a lot of these men have wives but they’re missing that “spark” so that’s where I come in. I’m looking for the relationship type feeling but without the commitment.
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 27
For me I think is a mixture of both, I never liked guys of my age because I feel like I need stability (emocional and economic) and I feel like they like to joke around which is fine but I'm not interested. SD already know what they want and what are capable of to get that, when I talk to men here they say they like younger girls because we are more fun to be around with (not all tho) it's all about how you feel with him/her and how you make him/her feel
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 26
It has been both emotional and living need on why I have started looking for a sugar because it has been hard to deal with most of what I have been through but i an a stubborn person so I hardly talk about my feelings or about my living situations to people who are new to me or who are even my closest friends. It's been hard but I'm trying to get through it and that is why I'm looking for a sugar.
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 32
Living need I would say because once you have a sip of the finer things it’s hard to readjust to living by your previous means and craving for luxury. It’s some what torture 😩 The international trips become only domestic flights. Nevertheless though most SD do provide a listening ear for an aching heart as well as his baby should.
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 34
I grew up in a poor household with an absent father. I am new to sugar dating, to me it's an emotional bond with someone that I know will always be able to make sure I'm financially secure. I do prefer a man that is older than me even up to my parents are, as it's a safety issue as well. However, I could use the financial assistance at this time in my life.
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 27
It is an emotional and living need. I have bills to pay and also would like to get out of my living situation. I need to begin to start making connections with different people and investing my money towards the right things. I need to do what's best for my son and I. As for My emotional situation this will help me alot and relaxing away form the stress
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 30
My living needs .I want someone to support me like i can support them with there needs. I learn to not get emotion involve because life is a battle field and you got to survive every bult that comes your way. I found out that this is a good app to find what i need and help me out in my living expense. Im willing to put my part if you are ready to do yours!
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 43
I joined because I am so sick of empty and shallow meetings on other sites. I need more. I need stability. I need long term relationships. I am a hard working single mom and I deserve more. I am looking for a 100%/100% relationship. Both parties doing what is necessarry to succeed in the relationship. There is no quick fixes and I am looking for a partner that can match my passion
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 48
To me it's both. My family life was although very secure and loving I never saw a successful marriage or long lasting relationship. Because of this I wonder if such a thing is possible. Today is more live for the moment and take every opportunity to the breaking point. You only get one time to do this and of course we're not going to do it completely right, so why not have fun and love your life. On the other point, in my life I've had very interesting and sometimes very complicated partners. I've raised my children and now I'm living alone and wanting to do all the fun things that life has to offer. Why not meet new people, go new places and try new things. It can only make life more interesting. #livelifetothefullest
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 34
Yes it it, i am a single mother of one. Who has been through a lot. I feel it's time for me to enjoy the finer things in life. I have been wanting a mopey for the longest time and can't even afford it. My daughter means the world to me, but mommy needs some fun. U know things are difficult every where but Jamaica is messed up. I can't wait to meet a good sugar Daddy.
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 30
I would say both I want financially stability I want someone who has himself together the same way I’m getting myself together I also agree emotionally as well . I want to be desired I want my man to crave me like every night is the first night. I want to live happy simple and satisfied with the right person by my side .
2023-05-07
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Sugar Baby / 39
For me, I did it just for the sake of trying it out. Haven’t had luck because majority of the supposed Sugar Daddies are ROBOT PROFILES on this site. It would be nice to actually have someone who just wants to talk and get to know one another and through organic situations; MAYBE let it grow from there. Until then I’ll just weed through the faux profiles and maybe hear from someone genuine.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 34
I sought out a sugar daddy because I wanted to feel safe. Taken care of. Secure. I'm sure it stems from some deep underlying Freudian theory about how all troubled girls grow up with daddy issues. But the real reason, the real underlying force, is greed. Its very easy money for very easy work. The way i see it, both parties go home satisfied, and no one gets hurt.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 44
I've been the bread winner my whole life, I understand and appreciate the value behind the generosity that stems from working hard. Never been spoiled or taken care of before. I have a huge heart, and a wild streak; why not spend my time with someone who can afford to do all the things we both dream of doing but together. Doesn't the thrill of spur of the moment trips and exotic cuisine, and entire days spent enjoying living in the moment without having to worry about if you can afford it sound enticing? I enjoy experiencing new places, good food, being playful and adventerous. I'd tease the heck out of my sugaD every step of the way. 💋
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 25
I believe it is more of a living need, seeing as I am young and I have a lot of things I am working towards in order to actually start my life. It's definitely been a struggle for me to get on a stable track of continuing my education due to the obstacles I have been facing since I was still in highschool- no jobs available in my area, no alternative for teansportation, low family income, etc.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 45
I would say it's a mixture of both. I feel like I am with being spoiled with gifts and money but I'm looking for more in life also I want the finer things that come along with a wealthier lifestyle. Truthfully I will not be happy if I'm not financially secure so I see this question weighing evenly with both factors personally. I'm looking to fill both needs.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 29
Both. I want to financially stable, and have a good life with a man that has goals. My lifestyle is to high to not be a sugar baby lol. I just need a man that has his life already planned out, and has goals for himself and his family that he decides to take on. This is something very new to me, lol ..
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 35
Both for sure, I'm in school and I need all the help that I can get, sometimes life hits you with unexpected things, you don't have the funds to pay for it. On top of that I'm not ready for relationship but I am ready for a friend, I don't have a lot of friends to hang out with anyway so why not someone who is willing to help me financially but also be your friend and possibly more in the future
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 26
It’s an emotional and financial support system, I’m in need of a man who can mentor me and lead me in the right direction while also having that emotional connection and financial stability. My family was too controlling and forced things like church and extracurricular while I enjoy focusing on myself, a daddy supports me in supporting myself.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 30
It's a little bit of both, but mainly the additional need for an emotional connection. My family lives 20 hours away and I don't get to see them much because of work, so it's very depriving of comforting conditions that I'm used to. As for the other part, I sometimes like to feel like I'm being taken care of and don't have to worry about every financial burden.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 28
Both. People my age have no actual emotions it seems, it’s all empty gestures and compliments. I’m not financially unstable but I’d just like to have more in my pocket and Sb to talk to so I started talking to older people and it was just a couple years older at first and now I’m here🤷🏽♀️. So both tbh
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 32
It's more my living needs, I have a desire to be cared for, mentored, and invested in. I'm a single woman who isn't unfortunate looking and has her own job and degree. I don't ask for much except help paying my debts with a cute little allowance in exchange for smart, consistent, discreet, low-maintenance companionship. I might even get into a little kink situation.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 26
By living need. I recently quit my job and this is an easy and safe method for support. I get the money I need to support my lifestyle and they get a pretty, young girl to spoil. Everyone wins! I have found Sudy to be a positive, safe space for a young sugar baby. It is very helpful for women like me to have an app where they feel secure in their safety.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 29
Living need is the initial reason why I can here. First time I was here was because I needed money for vacation and now I’m back because I need money for the new job I’m getting. If I find someone who can support me emotionally as well then that would be nice too because I’m emotionally unstable lol
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 25
It’s mainly a living need. There’s so much I want to buy but with college, a car payment, and everything else it’s hard to spoil myself, it’d be nice if someone did it for me. I’ve never tried having a sugar daddy, but hey, why not? I’m having trouble finding some closer to my age but as long as you’re not older than my dad then we’re fine
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 36
Maybe because I’m tired of being with little kids that don’t know what they want, I just want someone to enjoy life!! It’s not all about money but fun!! If you treat me like a queen you can be sure you’ll be treat the same like my king!! And I was just bored when I created my account 🙈 I’m just looking for a new experience!
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 39
So i feel like im getting into this for both reasons, the living side bcuz i have four little ones to support and i recently left their father bcuz he couldnt handle keeping his family financially stable, i worked in the past but it barely paid for daycare. And you have to be emotionally invested in your daddy or your arrangement will not work out.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
It's a little bit of both but mainly living needs that have started this lifestyle. Mentorship in arrangements are important though. I believe that most babies do come into this for the secured financial stability all while pursuing their own goals. Which isn't so bad if someone is willing to help them out. There are some that have decided to be a full time baby though.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 33
I'd say both. Wisdom is rare. Connections are even more rare but stability may be the rarest of them all. Ill be 26 and I have yet to find someone who I can literally connect with. Not just sexually, anybody can do that. I'm financially hurt right now, so a hand in that area would be great. I want to be loved up close and if you can buy me a car that'd be great too! ;)
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 28
I started doing this to help my family to help myself. I’m the first to go to college but we don’t have the money for it. All of our incomes go towards our bills. This was suggested to me as a joke by some classmates but I’ve met some down to earth people and some not so nice ones too. But I’ve made some great memories and learned some life lessons that I’ll grow from and truly grateful I did this.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 27
For me it's a bit of both, I'm tired of the same old thing, giving my all and getting nothing in return, that being said living on your own with bills to pay while trying to save up for school makes it really hard for me to be able to do anything for myself. I want to be the one to bring myself out of debt but I would love to be able to get my nails done, or buy new clothes or just have extra spending money for the things I love.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 34
I would say both. I’m looking for male guidance, stability and a companion of sorts. I don’t believe that i will ever find “true love” so as far as an arrangement, i thinks its the best fit. I believe that everyone deserves affection, companionship and understanding. Im all for mutually beneficial relationships.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 39
I want to find a relationship that gives me warmth and security, and I want to be your secret friend.I have been hurt by love, so I do not pray for love, I only need a relationship to satisfy my material condition, not so much, as long as it can make me happy. I hate hypocrisy, and I don't like people who don't give. I want to give you my most precious thing as long as you are happy.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 31
It's both. I hope to find the guy that can provide me with both. He would truly be my Prince Charming. I feel that if I'm capable of financially provide g for myself, why would I want a guy? Females nowadays are so self sufficient. But then as a female, I have the instinct to want to procreate. In order to do that, I will need a alpha male to provide and take care of me.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 28
Kinda both... I got out of a long relationship and thought this would be a good transition. However, I find that most of the men are narcissistic and borderline abusive... most guys who contact me are only interested in sex or my banking info. Pretty disappointing overall I’d have to say. The current relationship I’ve gotten into he’s been very controlling and not very nice or empathetic at all. Very into himself- borderline crazy. Don’t really know what to do at this point...
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 25
I joined Sudy and decided to enter the sugar baby lifestyle for both an emotional need and a living need, but mostly because I wanted to experience. Being a sugar baby allows me to find a competent individual that can take care of me and treat me as I should be treated. I'm allowed to experience pleasure and comfort, since a Sugar Daddy or Mommy can provide me with both a stable person to connect with emotionally and someone who can help me financially. I grew up in a poor household with dreams of going to college and having a more carefree lifestyle, unlike the one I experienced as a child. Being a sugar baby allows me that freedom while I can provide my own services to someone else. 💕💕
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 26
Emotional need! I have been treated very poorly by ‘men’ my own age and I’m tired of trying to find love through college men. I need someone who will care for me and not pressure me into things I do not want to do. I want to feel safe and secure in my relationships and I just don’t believe that men my age can do that.
2023-05-08
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Sugar Baby / 39
Having fun and enjoying love I was married before so for now I just want to have fun with people that does not have drama so I will love to be in the primiam said plz help me to get there I be someone to make me happy and to be a father to my kids and love money is the part of the game and love it makes this to be easy for us to be next to be each other's
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
I’m the first to go to college but I don’t really have the money for it so here I am. I wanna help my family out because we barely have money and we have a lot going on right now which we can barely pay for it. I’m willing to sell pictures for money to be able to have enough money to go to college and stay..
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 31
Living need. College is probably the most expensive bill I’ve ever had in my life and I can never really keep up with it lol. I wouldn’t say I’m emotionally unavailable, but I wouldn’t say I am either. I’m just looking to have some fun, meet some great people, and get through Nursing school loan free.
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
Living needs mostly because I'm struggling to keep food on the table with bills and all, i would love to meet an older guy who can mentor me as well though. I never had a sugar daddy but i know a few sugar babies who suggested i try this out, i really think its gonna be a great experience for me and i know i can learn alot as well from a sugar daddy.
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
Probably a little bit of both. It's also just a very exciting experience and you get a lot of attention and ... who doesn't love being spoiled and not having to worry about things ? Sugaring is an amazing thing. I've yet to find a decent sugar daddy or momma but I know there's one out there perfect for my standards and also my needs emotionally and physically
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 26
I think both apply to me. I came from a pretty messed up past including developing an eating disorder in foster care after getting taken away from an alcoholic mother and junkie, absent father. I came into adulthood with debt from my parents using my name for their credit cards and no where to live. I also have trouble being alone, so the company provided is 100% what I need.
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 25
I started being a sugar baby because I am paying for everything myself. School, phone, living expenses, car and everything else. My father had just gotten laid off, and my mother is unemployed. I have 6 siblings so there’s no money to help me pay for college. I had quit my job as a cashier because my boss was being inappropriate with me everyday. He went as far as trying to touch me. I have been trying to find a new job but no one had answered back in months. So I found Sudy and decided to give it a try. Furthermore, I believe that I can gain knowledge from a sugar daddy. He can teach me how to make money and how to be smart with it. I see him as my mentor.
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 25
living need because i’m short on money almost all the time and it’s starting to take a turn on my life. I have to cancel plans and start to save money to buy what i need. I do not have the time to get an extra job because it would get in the way with my school work that i really have to focus on. that’s why i thought this app would be a good sollution
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 27
Social and emotional, I have a very very bad self image and being loved our adored by others makes me feel important and happy. I sell my pictures as well and I noticed how much more my self esteem had roses since. I used to cry when looking in the mirror but I can finally say I'm okay with how I look. It's a wonderful experience. And I love the people I meet.
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 28
Living needs! An also a little of emotional needs. Just really needing help with both was as long as you can carry a conversation cause I know I can for sure. Would love to hang out with you too it would be great to have a friend to talk to and also a daddy at the same time that loves to take care of me and show me a great time cause I love to have a great time!
2023-05-09
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Sugar Baby / 27
I need a little bit of both, guys my age are just to immature to understand and being in college while working a job and taking on an internship takes away so much time from my social life and finally I just want to have some fun without having to worry and simply just enjoy with alongside someone I can share the experience with !
2023-05-09