Do You Have Any Suggestions for a Newbie Sugar Baby? - 4

405 Answers

Sugar Baby / 31

Create an actual relationship with them, weather it be romantic, friendship, or business. Truly listen and take into consideration how they feel and their interests. Always be up front and don't beat around the bush. And always be kind, don't just walk all over them. Just because they have money doesn't mean they lack emotion (refer back to second sentence). And never do anything you aren't comfortable with! Always trust your gut.

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 47

If you new then don't do what you have done in your past relationship that's why you are here now. Focus on that person let them know what you want and find out what makes them happy and can't get enough of you that way you both win. Now what is it you want? That on-the-go first thing you should know if top. And when you can get it take it all in and love it

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 32

So I am definitely a newbie suga baby myself so I'm still learning. But the best advice for starting anything new is to just go with it. Have a good time and do what you want. You gotta be comfortable in your own skin and in your surroundings. Im not really sure what i am doing! Lol but is anyone really? Life is all about choices so make them accordingly!

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 25

Dear the newbie sugar babies, I would just like to let you know that to get the best out of SUDY you should first - make your profile as good as possible - detailed description about yourself I.e. what your like, are you bubbly, intelligent, loving, kind ETC. Secondly - put a VERY detailed description of the guy you want ( I say this because if you don’t you won’t get the type of guy you want)!

2023-02-22

Sugar Baby / 36

Do not give away your information at first use the app to chat you will avoid a lot of scammers out there. Also think to yourself what you truly want out of a sugar baby sugar daddy relationship? Another thing to think about is do you care if your friends or loved ones find out? You may be in public sometime with your sugar daddy and may be outted so just know that.

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 30

For a sugar baby starting out. All I can say is be very grateful. Gratitude is the best attitude. Patience is what is also most important. When you see other girls posting what they got from their sugar daddies do not be discouraged be inspired. There is enouh for all of us. Be confident and understanding that the process will indeed take some time.

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 32

Do NOT give out personal information too soon. Never give account information. If they want that then they are most likely fake. Especially when they get heated at you for saying no. Really just try your best to comfort them and make them feel good. Be upfront about what you want so there are no surprises and resentments later in the relationship. And just have fun!

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 27

Respect yourself at the least and know that you deserve the best. Never settle in life and continuously strive for new things in life. Many times it will look unfruitful in the beginning, but it becomes easier as you progress through it. My main tip going into this is: be confident and put yourself before anything else. You do you boo and be good at what you do 😊

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 32

Keep in mind there’s always scammers don’t give out too much explanation . First date do it at a public place . Advice that you don’t want to do anything unless they provide a small “gift” first just to make sure they are not scammers and to be safe ! Let them know your expectations before they take advantage of you . Make sure to Stay safe always.

2023-02-23

Sugar Baby / 27

Well, I’m new myself so i’m going to go of a whims real quick. First, make sure that you are emotionally stables to handle all of this. Don’t overthink it. Remember who you are and how you were raised. Respect yourself, body, mind, emotions, and soul. Don’t change yourself just because you feel like you’re not worth it. Men will come and go but you are forever.

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 27

You gotta find a way to make yourself stand out from the crowd, there's a good amount of girls looking for sugary daddies and some daddies get as many as a hundred messages a day, so you wanna make them notice you. Also, be wary of scammers, lots of them will ask for your bank account info or your personal information. You gotta stay safe out there babies!

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 25

BE CAREFUL. While making your profile be true to you or else you will get SD's that don't get you. Don't trust someone right off the bat and feel the waters out before you completely submerged yourself into this lifestyle. Also, understand that this is an agreement and you're going to have to be comfortable communicating with a SD knowing they're giving you an allowance. Be open to new things.

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 45

This may seem repetitive if you read my first response the key in any relationship always trust honesty and communication. So be yourself otherwise the real you will eventually come out! Ultimately, hurting him and most importantly yourself. You have to respect yourself and love yourself to be able to build a stable, honest & trusting relationship. Be safe and smart about how you communicate and meet sugar daddies. It only takes one person to make you both happy if your loyal, honest and caring.

2023-02-24

Sugar Baby / 59

New sugar Babies Be very careful meeting your daddy's for the very first time I think they're more scammers and Bots then there are real men and even some of those real men are not very nice be very choosy remember you are the special one you're the one that holds all the cards respect yourself respect others and above all if you see somebody or somebody tries to scam you report them.

2023-02-24

Sugar Daddy / 71

Although most of you do, I suggest not to use snapchat filters to destroy your face. SD are usually a bit older than you and most of them think it makes you look ridiculous and not very sexy. I swipe away all snapchat pics. Also don't post your paypal in your profile, it's not the first thing SDs would like to see. Be open and subtle and talk about money from the beginning.

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 27

For all the new sugar babies be yourself. Because you are new many sugar daddy's will try to use you. Try not to let that happen by being too desperate. Whenever you've found the right sugar daddy get to Know everything about him so that when things go wrong you know what to do. Always let a friend know where you are so he/she can alert someone 👌👌

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 30

Well I’m still new to this! The best way I found to being a new sugar baby is to be yourself and say exactly what your looking for. The more straight forward as you are, the more likely you’ll get something you like! And of course you need to be super cute!! I haven’t gotten any responses yet, but I’m pretty sure something is gonna come my way soon!

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 36

Be open to experiences, rather than having expectations. If you're new, the leaning curve can be fun and exciting, or it can be painful and off-putting. My philosophy is that nobody should have to be ashamed for having needs, and we all should be able to keep our dignity while getting them met. Respect is crucial in successful relationships. If you have to beg or apologize, probably a good sign you aren't in a good situation. If it's mutually beneficial, respectful, and fun, meeting people in the sugar context is actually very satisfying and more appealing than traditional dating.

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 26

I think that to be a successful sugar baby you need to ensure you actually respect yourself and your body and not throw it out there just for anybody. Don’t be afraid to get rid of a SD if he isn’t treating you well and paying you right, don’t ever give out banking details as a lot of people are just in it for the money and to try and scam people, it’s quite sad.

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 27

Get verified for sure. Also watch out for scammers. Protect your bank info at all costs because they are like piranhas I swear. Make your location clear, as well as if you are willing to travel and/or have the ability to travel. You’ll learn pretty quick how to pick out someone legitimate from someone fake and/or trying to scam you, as scammers are... a lot less crafty than you’d think. Just be cautious til you learn the ropes.

2023-02-25

Sugar Baby / 25

Don’t get ahead of yourself. There’s many people that are going to want more than what you want to do and give. That doesn’t require you to do it. It is YOUR body. You find somebody who fits your needs and who can benefit from you as much as you benefit from them. And never just meet up with a stranger. The money is good and it helps allot of things but you never want to risk your safety. Be calm and take things slow. Good things come with time

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

My advice to new babies would be to know your worth, and never settle for less. Be outspoken about what you want and what you don't want. Now for the more "stereotypical part" remember to always dress your best and classiest. Show a little off but leave plent to the imagination. Heels ALWAYS add class. Know your expensive brands, clothes watches etc. so you can determine your daddy's wealth, and give him the impression you are as high maintenance as they come. It's attractive to wealthy men! Always looks clean and fresh, and have a very nice scent. I don't care if the dress you wear to your meet is from forever21 girl, rock that shit and make it look like fendi- but you need to be willing to dish out on a scent. Sexy and sweet is the route to go. There's so much more to remember but these are just some basics. Happy sugaring ladies! <3 girl power!

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 26

In my experience, most sugar daddies and mommies prefer being able to connect with their babies. So rather than just sending pornos and nudes from the get go, talk to them, establish a connection and even try to meet up for a dinner or two first. By doing so you’re showing them that you actually want to know them as a person and not just a way to fill your bank account. Also keep active with your profile. Uploading moments regularly will show daddies and mommies the little highlights of your life, and get a sense of the kind of baby your would be without even having to talk. The more moments you upload, the more people will view your profile. Finally never give out your bank account info. Even if the deal they are offering you seems like a dream come true and they seem like a great person, it’s not worth the risk. There are too many scammers on this sight that will steal from you. There are plenty of other ways to send and receive money without giving that info out. Stay safe babes 🖤

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 29

I would tell all of the newbies to do your research. This isn't something to jump into. Be safe and smart and know what you're doing. You do not have to do everything they want, make boundaries and remember that you matter. You're not disgusting and to try to meet in a public place when having first meetings. Don't trust anyone when they say they will pay you. Keep your respect. Don't lose it. You got this.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 33

To all new SB take good pictures don’t hide your face, and engage with as many SD/SM as possible, be open minded as well . More pictures the better , set up your or profile completely. Have several ways to be contacted at and respond in a timely manner ... also know exactly what your looking for so you and your SD/SM can set proper expectation 4 one another

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 25

new sugar babies out there, I would recommend first making your profile and appealing and intriguing as possible. Then, converse with as many SDs and SMs as possible. If you can, talk to a veteran SB. We all have different things to say and offer, and I for one, don't mind helping a fellow baby out. Take care of yourself and appear attractive and clean at all times. This is an investment just as much as anything else is in your life.

2023-02-26

Sugar Baby / 31

For new sugar babies open your mind to be enlightened in knowledge. be adventurous have a open mind to basically new things . Never say no if it’s not causing you body harm or any type of pain I suppose . Don’t think of this as a get rich quick scheme because it will never work . Be ready to fall in love and be happy . Be open to being a housewife meeting the family or children becoming something new

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 28

For all new sugar babies, do not let the money wave your logic. If it doesn't make sense don't be naive in giving out your personal information. That includes your bank info! Do not let them try convincing you that they need your bank login or to take a picture of your card, THAT'S A SCAM. Immediately joining the app I was sweet talked into $400-$800, but the catch was I had to give them my bank info. I gladly told them to piss off because under no circumstances should you give anyone access to your money/bank.

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 26

If you’re new to being a sugar baby the most important thing to remember is setting guidelines. Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with doing. The right daddy will listen to you, care for you and the spoiling will come more genuinly. Being honest and open about what you want is super important because there is no room for confusion or frustration from you or your daddy. This can also save you from an awkward situation

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 34

I love this place however finding a real person hasnt seemed to work so far its been slow im hoping to set up an advertisin thought maybe we could tell the men tht already help us as well and as far as im concered just stay Aware. Have Fun. Where do you stand in Life What Are your goals we All Need Money But What Do You Like Clothes shoes nails!!??

2023-02-27

Sugar Baby / 34

o the new sugar babies out there, I would recommend first making your profile and appealing and intriguing as possible. Then, converse with as many SDs and SMs as possible. If you can, talk to a veteran SB. We all have different things to say and offer, and I for one, don't mind helping a fellow baby out. Take care of yourself and appear attractive and clean at all times. This is an investment just as much as anything else is in your life.

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 27

Make sure you have a great portfolio before you create any profiles and make sure your upfront and honest about everything you want out of an arrangement with whomever. Ask yourself the right questions and make sure you're always safe with your information unless you are 100% sure that whomever is going to be in your real life for a while. Keep a smile and always make sure to be yourself. Personality goes a good way.

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 42

Ok so I asked myself what am I doing on this app. I can get what i want on my own but I am really lonely and I have not fooled around a lot in my life and money is power and i find power interesting because I am very intelligent. It makes me feel good to make another person feel good and that is worth more than money. I am very unique and very beautiful. There are not not many men like me. If I had money I would meet myself and would keep myself because I know fake gold from real gold. I can’t even perform sexually because of trauma I experienced but I can great head and I love being kinky. It hurts to not be able to perform sexually but i know who I am and pleasure is beyond penetration. I have never been loved or treated nicely by anybody. I have been abused and destroyed over and over again. I am crying right now just writing this. If I can find somebody who will give me kindness and affection then i will kill for them because that is all I ever wanted. I think I am going to go far as a SB because it just feels natural. And I am starving for attention and real human experience.

2023-02-28

Sugar Baby / 29

don't rush into it.but don't give up do your research no your worth and always use protection stay safe let a friend know where you are going an who you are going with for the first date meet at a public place. If you feel uncomfortable let him know. thanks loves be careful out here make sure you have your location on. no means no don't seem desperate

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 28

Always use common sense. If something seems too good to be true it probably is. Always reverse image search any picture of flexing they send you. It's very easy to eliminate the fake daddy's from the real daddy's this way. Remember that at the end of the day, outside of the arrangements, you are still you. If you feel like you're trapped or regret your decision you can always leave. You hold the power girl.

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 36

For a newbie, I would definitely say...pay attention to people that can't make full sentences. Or talk in proper English. If they send you a crazy number for your allowance and then say to Kik or call them, they are probably a scammer. Don't ever give out banking info. A real daddy will never ask for it. Make sure everyone involved knows what you want and expect. And always meet in public until trust is there. Don't be afraid to protect yourself. Always use caution.

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 26

Be clean and be careful. You’re not a prostitute so don’t dress like one when going out in public with your daddy. When they ask for your bank info to do a mobile check deposit, don’t ever give it to them 10/10 they are a scam okay? Be safe and always let someone know where you are going okay? Lastly this is an investment, not just in his feelings but in yours so if he doesn’t treat you right don’t hesitate or force yourself to continue being someone’s sugar baby

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 27

As a new baby I believe that you should have respect for yourself fist and not settle for anything less of what you want because some of these SD will try to take advantage of you. So the best thing you can do for yourself is set your standards and don't bend them for anybody. And to talk to as many SD as possible to better your chances of finding the right one for you not just taking the first weird guy that wants to give you a 100 dollars. I cannot stress enough we are NOT prostitutes!! So don't give them that impression that they can disrespect you

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 28

Be very careful! If a SD or SM asks for any info about your bank account. Run! They are fake. No matter how much they seem different or better than others, it's not real. They are NOT real! Never give that info out! You can also check grammar mistakes. If the message doesn't make sense or the grammar is way off, that is a defi ite sign. That usually points to a fake account. Just be cautious!

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 29

Make your profile original, be yourself! 💕 be kind, sweet and caring and never share personal information that neither is ok with. Be respectful of each other and completely honest! 💕 try to reach out to other girls if your comfortable with that if you have questions, I’m sure are more then willing to help💕 Remember that your body is yours! You have the power to say no to whatever or whoever! Much love💕 Doki~💖

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 28

Always be userself. Make sure you are always comfortable on what you are both doing. Newbies please please verify the identity of the sugar daddy before meeting them. Ask for a business profile, LinkedIn, or a business card or a picture of their ID. Make sure you have someone that can check up on you when you go meet for the first time.. Take pepperspray

2023-03-01

Sugar Baby / 34

Stand your ground. Figure out what you want and won’t put up with and don’t let guys push you around or make you feel bad because they are paying. Always be safe. It’s better to lose money than lose your life. Don’t act a fool. Be upfront and direct. If you don’t like something, say it. If you feel uncomfortable then leave. If he is a true gentleman then he’ll understand.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 39

Dont consider yourself as a sugarbaby. A whore. A Charlotten. Etc. You are a commodity. You are here because you got tired of being hit on by guys who have no money. Guys who are only interested in sex. Guys who dont value you dont value themselves. But they arent the commodity you are. Your not just beautiful. Your talented. But we werent given a fare shot at life. So we have to make our own way.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 27

My suggestion for a newbie sugar baby is to be yourself. SD’s love when you’re real, open and honest with them because their taking the money to provide for you you should be kind enough to be honest about who you are. In public keep yourself well kept and look like a trophy. Behind closed doors be nasty but establish some ground rules with your SD. Communication is key in ALL ARRANGEMENTS .

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 28

Don’t come into the sugar world and think, I’m beautiful and have an amazing body, I’m going to find a sugar daddy right away. That’s not true, it takes a while for some. Time varies when finding the right sugar daddy. Most are scammers, most just want a quick picture, or some actually genuinely want a SB/SD relationship with you. Just know most of the time, you won’t find a sugar daddy right away. It takes time, for the most part.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 34

WATCH OUT FOR SCAMMERS!! There has been do many times when u thought I really found a daddy and then BOOM he's a scammer. What I like to do before I engage in any conversation is ask for validation. If they cannot do something as simple as send a picture of them holding up your name, then he's probably a fraud trying to get your bank info. Just be smart and remember you have the power.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 25

Always make sure to take care of yourself! Be safe! Don't leak personal information that could get you in trouble. Have fun, but be careful! Always be conscious of older guys wanting to take advantage of you. Don't ever let them make you feel like you're worthless or that they own you, because that's not at all how it is. Be strong, have fun, go wild

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 28

To the new sugar babies I'd recommend you just be comfortable and be yourself. You don't have to change but know your worth and show a little sexiness for your daddy, afterall he'll be doing all of the things he's gonna do for you the least you can do is truly show your appreciation, let him know that you're greatful. Tell your sugar daddy thank you without actually saying it, that'll really have him wanting more

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 26

i belive honesty is always the best policy. be up front with your daddy or mommy about what you want from the relationship and don’t be afraid to let him or her know if you change your mind. being comfortable with each other provides both of you with a lot more trust in each other and in future relationships. it’s also easy to make the relationship all about you but make sure you’re getting to know your daddy or mommy and asking them questions as well.

2023-03-02

Sugar Baby / 28

Be yourself , be honest and don't scam people . It ruins opportunities for others and yourself in the future . Have fun and be safe ! Build a relationship with your daddy , and get to know them there's so many genuine and good hearted men on this site and out there in general give them a chance ! Be cautious but not over doing it . Have fun ladies !!

2023-03-02