What Are the Disadvantages of Dating a Sugar Daddy? - 3
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Sugar Baby / 27
The down fall would be attraction and the feeling of security being with someone much older and we'll being out of his league you would want some breath taking man but instead you get a typical average person whose at least twice your age. Meeting up with one for the first time is scary meeting a stranger just be cautious and curtious. The strange part for me personally was to find out the cost for My time and to say hey it's $250 each time we meet.
2023-02-12
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Sugar Baby / 27
There are so many disadvantages but also so many advantages. The biggest disadvantage is definitely the sexual side most sugar daddy’s feel that you’re obligated to have a sexual relationship and a lot of sugar babies don’t want that considering most of the time there is a huge age gap. You can get hurt mentally and physically you always have to be safe who you meet and who you talk to there are some crazies out there but also some diamonds in the rough!
2023-02-12
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Sugar Baby / 26
It's good get very stressful on your daddy and yourself could still have a work and needs to receive an income to provide wants and needs for him and you. Society also has its way on bringing you and your daddy you down but don't worry and don't listen to all the haters out there because you know what you do you boo boo and don't let anyone stop You from doing what you love
2023-02-12
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Sugar Baby / 34
The disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is matching up schedules and comfort levels. If you find the right daddy for you, there really shouldn't be any disadvantages at all. All you need to do is find that person that makes you "click." That's when anything that was a chore becomes a pleasure. Don't give up trying to find the right daddy. When you do, it's perfect.
2023-02-12
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Sugar Baby / 30
Lack of a "real" relationship: The major disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is that you never get a real boyfriend. You are also aware of the fact that this relationship is temporary and can end abruptly when your partner is bored. ... Most sugar daddies have busy schedules and may squeeze you in whenever they are free....some of these sugar daddies want you to do lots of dirty things because they are giving you money.
2023-02-13
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Sugar Baby / 29
The disadvantage of having a sugar daddy is usually lack of personal lifestyle choice! Very often I've seen daddies request that you drop everything to go see them, or go live near them and not have another job and while sometimes that's what a baby is looking for more often it makes babies like me feel trapped. Additionally, not all Daddies care about your personal issues. They are looking for a way to have fun and escape, and it can be difficult to do that for someone and not expect the same in return.
2023-02-13
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Sugar Baby / 26
My personal opinion would have to be that The down side would have to be the age difference that he may be 50 or older and you being 18 and some girls don't dig that and find it awkward to may even have to sleep with some of them to make money and having to share the man with someone else or that you have to be the he is cheating on his wife that's hard
2023-02-13
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Sugar Baby / 29
I think one of the biggest disadvantages, is well being available all the time and sometimes not being able to set time to yourself. Sometimes they arent very attractive or are a little pushy. One thing that is a disadvantage is the stress that can sometimes pop up. One more thing i find a disadvantage is sometimes having to do anything sexual that you yourself are not comfortable with.
2023-02-13
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Sugar Baby / 44
The disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy at times would be that usually they have a family or they're away at work all the time and the whole point of doing this with with a woman is so they can have no strings attached and no one's clinging to them and little to no expectations so the downfall to that is not having all over their time once you're attached and needing them and them not being available
2023-02-13
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Sugar Baby / 27
It would be that most assume that sugar babies are dtf, when it's not the case with some. Just like regular dating you can't generalize what everyone's boundaries and expectations are. People forget the dating aspect of this type of relationship, if I was interested in prostitution there's sites for that. I just want to elevate the company I'm around, for a multitude of reasons but 1. Law of attraction, if I surround myself with the lifestyle I want to live then inevitably I'll get there.
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 30
For me.. too dominant. Some of them doesnt care what you feel. They just care what they feel and you are a piece of product that is intended to adjust to what they wanted. Not saying every sugar gldaddy is like this. Some of them.. also they always brag about the things that they can do. But they cant do it without money though. Some of them arrogant.
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 26
probably being affectionate and intimate with a man you wouldn't normally be attracted to, and having to make yourself available for him at times you may not be into it. But we successful babies put on our big girl panties and take care of business. You constantly have to remind yourself of the end goal, or his great personality or how he's changing your life in order to get through the difficult moments
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 38
It's a business agreement not a relationship. Getting attached to someone who can't attach to you. The real feelings and emotions involved with true love are not necessarily involved in a sugar agreement. Family and friends dont agree or understand the reasoning. Overall being treated like property and feeling obligated at times. Being serious and committed don't apply.
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 27
the disadvantages of having a sugar daddy is basically them having money. As a sugar baby they know you need it so there are quite a few things you have to keep in mind and let them know. For 1 its STRICTLY BUISNESS. People tend to not understand. Unfortunately you'd have to learn for yourself in the process. Just be stern DONT give them the upper!
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 40
You have to be prepared for the lies and the games. All Sugar daddies are not single some of them are married. Most of the time the truth isn't revealed right away so you have to always expect the worse so you're not disappointed. The other down side is that most if the people on social sites aren't really who their profile says they are, so don't get caught up in the hype.
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 26
There aren't really any disadvantages when dating a sugar daddy besides the age difference. At some point you may argue with them and they may say some harshful things like they're the reason your bills are getting paid. And if you want to introduce them to your family they may not approve of the age difference or the way you two met. Being with a sugar daddy can also be stressful because you may not have such a high sex drive as them and they may get offended
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 27
It can be soooo stressful. Some SD/SM have a lot baggage. You just have to work around it. They can be controlling so don’t get sucked into that unless you really want have that one SD/SM and even then if it may become too much. You might even be the reason a relationship/marriage/family end so you have to be prepared for that. Honestly I still think the worst part is being broken up with. Lls
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 26
There are many ups and downs to having an SD. there are fakes and scammers out there that we all have to be collectively weary of. Also, if you depend on having a SD don't get to comfy with one, things often go sideways. Being honest with a SD is key in having a successful relationship. If you're asked to be exclusive and can't handle it be honest.
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 32
Being with a sugar mummy can be not exactly what you wanted. I mean okay first of all remember you are just a toy to her face and she owns you. You don't have the outmost say in everything, she will only need you when she feels the need to so your less important in her eyes which will make you feel so worthless but what can you do you need the money. And don't catch feelings because if you do you will only end up being broken because she doesn't give a shit about you
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 40
A downside to being a SB is when he doesn't understand you have a real job to do each day, and a household to manage. I personally am a 2nd shift supervisor and work crummy hours through the night. Im not allowed my cell due to being a secure area so I can't talk each night at their begging will. I am married and have to be at home each night. Sometimes things have to be planned out for a few weeks ahead so there is time to get things in place to make sure everything goes correctly. They also may not fully understand comfort zones or family/work issues causing complications for previously arranged plans. Communication is going to be to prevent as many negatives or disadvantages to being a SB.
2023-02-14
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Sugar Baby / 36
The only disadvantage I’ve found is that if you find a sugar daddy who you want to have a relationship with and he isn’t interested as time goes on you start to develop feelings and it becomes more than a business arrangement! If you are an emotional person or are clingy this might not work for you. You also have to be ok with him having other women while you only devote your time to him
2023-02-15
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Sugar Baby / 31
I find it can sometimes be difficult to not allow the business end of sugaring to effect the genuine connection you might have with your SD. Often they want that to be the focus, and I think that is great unless it is actually a ploy to not have to pay you and make you feel bad about asking for money that was always part of the agreement. Don't let them play you!
2023-02-15
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Sugar Baby / 32
A lot of times they tend to lie to you, which makes it hard for those that deserve to be your sugar daddy. Also if you two click really well it's really difficult to not see them if they travel A lot or love else where and just visit. There are more advantages than disadvantages though,you just have to find the right one and he will blow you away!!
2023-02-15
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Sugar Baby / 26
You should understand that being with a sugar daddy is for interest so be interesting and have him keep you interested. No emotions from your part should get in the way. You are here for an arrangement only and you should always demand respect and be respectful to one another. Being there for him is up to you or whatever arrangements is between you
2023-02-15
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Sugar Baby / 33
Not being atteacted to the SD is one and they tin to want to take control of you . they forget that this is an arrangement and your helping them just as much as they are helping. Sometimes they will try and make you feel bad but dont underatand tbat they are in on it as well so we both should keep that respect and have boundaries when we are dealing with eachother
2023-02-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
You will never be in a real relationship with your daddy, this is business. He will never be there to support you like a boyfriend would, he isn’t there to vent too or to cry too. His pleasure has to come first if you want that pay check or Gucci bag. You also don’t get to pick when and where your sugar daddy is or if he comes to your town often, you are the sugar baby - his work and or real family must always come before you.
2023-02-16
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Sugar Baby / 32
The disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy would be in some cases not enough time together or not enough effort put in on his part though money is significant in most “agreements “as I have said previously most people long for human effection. Some women also don’t like it when the sugar daddy has multiple sugar babies. Though this is an arraignment after a while it’s only human nature you can get attached to someone you get use to being around
2023-02-16
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Sugar Baby / 27
I think that the age differences can be a big difficult in the relationship because they have other things in their mind. Some of them wants a serious relationship and the others only want to get some fun and that. I think the difficult come from both sides. We have to take care because they look in us like a way of escape from thei responsibilities.
2023-02-16
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Sugar Baby / 33
In my opinion, some of the difficult parts of being a sugar daddy is understanding that this is mostly a job/business situation. It’s easy to get caught up in making the money, but at the end of the day your sugar daddy is your employer and has expections and needs to be met. It doesn’t always necessarily matter if you want to do something, you just have to do it.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 35
I'm gay 😑 so that would be a huge disadvantage. Witty humor on the huge part. I think it is possible to have a partnership with someone that you are attracted to, regardless of age, and of different social standings, while still adoring and respecting each other. I like to inspire and encourage my partners in a way that strengthens their character. I expect the same of my partner. I also know that while I can't fincially support my partner, I have many trade skills and can provide for my partner in ways that most can't, even with money. That being said, the greatest disadvantage towards being in a relationship with someone of greater financial standing is not the dynamic itself, but the way society has tainted perception.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 27
The major disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is that you never get a real boyfriend. You are also aware of the fact that this relationship is temporary and can end abruptly when your partner is bored. The chances of getting married to him are not very high either. Also, Just as how your sugar daddy picked you up, he might also be scouting out other ladies as well. If that is the case, it is important for you not to get too emotionally involved or you might stand the chance of being hurt.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 41
I would say that sugar daddies are usually looking for something very specific and depending on what kind of baby you are comfortable being, there could be some anxiety there. However, if both parties are open and up front with what they are looking for and expecting, that could fix that problem. I do think that those of us who work and/or have children in our personal lives may have a harder time fulfilling someone who would expect more of our time. But that's all part of it.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 35
One of the disadvantages of dating a sugar daddy is that sometimes the guy isn't always readily available and sometimes the guy is into really weird kinky things. I've had guys ask me for some really weird sexual favors and I usually don't give into them. Other than that if you're safe and you play your cards right sugar dating can be fun! Good luck!
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 29
There are a few disadvantages. One is that your relationship may not be as welcomed as you may like. Family and friends may judge a SB or SD for their decision. Another disadvantage is that it's addictive! It's hard to return to regular dating if you've had an SD. Las point I have is that it's east to catch feelings for both SD and SB. It's only dangerous for the SB to forget that the relationship is business.
2023-02-17
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Sugar Baby / 29
My biggest issue is the time commitment. I give my time, effort, and attention fully when I have other things to do like school, work, and volunteer. I enjoy everything I do and I don't want to stop giving support as a sugar baby, but it can be tough adding more responsibility, kind of. The payout is great, but sometimes it isn't worth the added stress.
2023-02-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
Perdonally, i come across too many men who want you to be a fictional character rather than an actual human being. So the conversations are geared towards them making you say what they want to hear and playing a role that they created which defeats the purpose of an arrangement. Other things I’ve noticed are that under the guise of mentorship, some men speak in a condescending way- especially to younger women- to make themselves appear better. It’s hard to weed these ones out but it’s possible. Other tedious things would be the busy schedules, the marriages, the families, the discreetness.
2023-02-18
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Sugar Baby / 26
There are several advantages and disadvantages to being a Sugar Baby. One of the hardest parts, to me, is sharing. Your Daddy/Mama may have more than one Sugar baby. This means that you may not always be at the front and center of their attention. You also have to be severely trusting. Some will ask for physical vulnerability. You have to have a sort of blind faith in your SB or SM in order to be successful and have a healthy relationship
2023-02-18
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Sugar Baby / 39
This is not an easy job to do I guess sometimes we have to something's we may not like you meet somebody that you have no interested in and like you like money you have to do things that you may not want to do you have to be mature you have to have a good head on your shoulder you got to be safe because some sugar daddy is very controlling in you have to have an open mind
2023-02-18
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Sugar Baby / 33
The one thing I've noticed is that many daddies don't understand that you have you're own life too and you can't be there 24/7. Because you're paying me for my services, doesn't mean I'm yours all the time. Also, respect. You get what you want and I get what I want so, please be respectfull. Money controls things yes, but I don't take daddies seriously if there's no mutual respect.
2023-02-19
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Sugar Baby / 25
They always ask to meed or video chat or send nudes and that really is annoying I personally am looking for a ddlg daddy not someon i use to get money but thats one of the down sides in my opinion but im not sure how to use the app i just joined today so im not aure how it worjs it would be easier ig sudy had a ddlg version of the app but this works
2023-02-19
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Sugar Baby / 33
The only downside is sometimes you’re not able to travel with your SD and they may be very busy for work and you miss them. I would suggest for anybody who is worried about dating an older person you should probably get to know them and their personality before you worry about what they look. Attraction won’t be an issue fall in love with their soul, don’t fall in love with their wallet. Or their physical features, because one day you’re going to be that 50-year-old person.
2023-02-19
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Sugar Baby / 35
I think that a lot of men have changed what the SD/SB arrangement means in terms of their expectations. They are looking for girlfriends but are slapping the price tag on it as an incentive to do less work on his end. They want you to jump through hoops to prove yourself because they feel like they have the upper hand ($) So, I believe the biggest disadvantage would be having to actually be girlfriend rather than a sugar baby as intended.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 28
disadvantage of dating a sugar daddy is that you can be judged by others when your seen with an older man. your sugar daddy may take avantage of you cause they are the one providing for you. its also hard to be on the same mindset because of the age difference. maybe family members wont approve if they know about it. your sugar daddy is really older you might not get to do really fun stuff.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 28
The one major downside for me is the power and respect imbalance. At one point I was dating a man who ended up making me feel more like an employee than a loved one and it was hard to handle. I feel like if you find a quality man this won't be as much of an issue unless there are other underlying insecurities. There is also a lot of stress, especially for men and women in business positions.
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 26
The disadvantages are that the age difference can sometimes be overwhelming and your not always attracted to a man twice your age. It can also be frustrating when a SugarD doesn’t understand that you have a personal life and can’t drop everything. It is a business agreement and so you have to treat it that way but the downside to that is that your sugarD does not have to give you an explanation as to why there either done talking to you or done being a SugarD
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 25
The only disadvantage is constantly being pampered and always coming first. I don’t know about the rest of you but my previous sugar Daddy’s spoil me and although it’s nice, I’m a little too spoiled. I’m too used to getting my nails and hair done every month or less💁♀️ Love my sugar Daddy’s but some of them are a little too kinky if you know what I mean😘
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 29
Although I’ve never been involved , unlike a lot of other sugar babies I am looking for some form of a connection and friendship with the man. In these relationships I know sometimes it’s very transactional and sometimes not emotionally connected and for me that’s an issue. I need some form of trust and care so that I can open up otherwise the little money given isn’t quite enough
2023-02-20
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Sugar Baby / 39
A disadvantage I see is investing my time and money (traveling and looking hot costs money) into meeting new Sugar Daddies but getting no where on the things I need. I like to be patient and keep it fun without talk of what's in it for me at least at first so sometimes you end up with a dud that thinks he get everything he wants without making you confident you will get what you want.
2023-02-21
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Sugar Baby / 27
eventually it gets old and annoying. he suddenly “spends more than he meant to” or his “company isn’t doing very good” so you start realizing you’re investing all this time and effort into an empty promise. you also become annoyed with their neediness and when they have a gf/wife you start wondering “well why am i even here? take care of your own family first”
2023-02-22
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Sugar Baby / 25
The disadvantages of being with a sugar daddy is; you might loose a lot of contact wit people - due to people disagreeing with it, it’s technically a form of legal prostitution, there are certain guide lines you have to follow, you can’t just meet up and fuck you have to follow their rules! Come when they want and if you don’t they actually get pretty upset with you!!
2023-02-22