{"id":1052,"date":"2017-09-09T11:45:46","date_gmt":"2017-09-09T15:45:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/?p=1052"},"modified":"2019-01-09T03:42:59","modified_gmt":"2019-01-09T08:42:59","slug":"no-luck-finding-sugar-daddy-not-profile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/no-luck-finding-sugar-daddy-not-profile\/","title":{"rendered":"No Luck Finding a Sugar Daddy? It\u2019s Not You, It\u2019s Your Profile"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Success in the sugar world is hugely a numbers game: the more sugar daddies you are in contact with, the better your chances of landing yourself in an ideal sugar arrangement.<\/div>\n
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You want to put yourself out there as much as possible and this requires action \u2013 searching and reading profiles, crafting emails, engaging in banter \u2013 but there\u2019s only so much action you can take. You have a life, right?<\/p>\n

In order to succeed in finding a sugar daddy without spending all your time in front of a computer, you need to make the passive aspects of the sugar search work for you \u2013 this means making your profile the stickiest, most memorable profile a sugar daddy is going to view that day and hopefully, that week.<\/p>\n

This is why I recommend springing for a paid membership on at least one of the best sugar daddy websites so you can \u201cFeature\u201d your profile and attract the most sugar daddy eyeballs to it as possible. \u00a0At the same time, there\u2019s no point in paying to prominently feature your profile if the profile text reads like drying paint.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not having much success reeling in a sugar daddy, check your profile to see if you\u2019re guilty of the profile mishaps listed below.<\/p>\n

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Sugar Baby Profile Mistake #1. \u201cI like the finer things in life\u201d<\/h2>\n

If I had a penny for every profile that says this\u2026well, I wouldn\u2019t need a sugar daddy. Not only is this description completely redundant (who, tell me, who doesn\u2019t enjoy the finer things in life?), it\u2019s akin to broadcasting how you are absolutely no different from every other bland sugar baby out there.<\/p>\n

The average sugar daddy is successful and well-versed in the \u201cfiner things in life\u201d \u2013 which means his taste in sugar babies is going to be above average. He\u2019ll want the whole package \u2013 looks, wit, and personality. The worst sugar baby sin is to bore your sugar daddy.<\/p>\n

Generic statements = unmemorable sugar baby.<\/p>\n

Tip: Spend a minute thinking about what qualifies as the \u201cfiner things in life\u201d to you. Describe the things you like, how you like to do it, where you like to go, what you like to eat. Present it in an interesting, engaging way. Tell a story.<\/p>\n

Example: \u201cLast night, I traveled to Tibet. A Buddhist monk I met there told me that every new person I meet is no stranger at all \u2013 every new meeting is a result of our souls have met 100 times before. And then I woke up. I don\u2019t get to travel as much as I\u2019d like, but I dabble in the art of pleasure-making wherever I am. I\u2019m more inclined to the fun, the fabulous, the decadent \u2013 is there anything more sensuous than sipping champagne mid-day? Playing hooky to peruse the Surrealists at a local gallery? Bantering over a platter of fresh oysters at a restaurant by the seaside? I say not. If you agree, let me know and we\u2019ll arrange our (one hundred and) first date.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sugar Baby Profile Mistake #2. \u201cI need some help\u201d<\/h2>\n

Yes, that\u2019s part of the reason you\u2019re seeking a sugar daddy. Sugar daddies already know this. They want to help you, to spoil you. But you know what? The old adage \u2013 \u201cThe crying baby gets the milk\u201d \u2013 is NOT true in the sugar world.<\/p>\n

Many sugar babies fall into the trap of thinking that if they broadcast themselves as charity cases, sugar daddies will be more inclined to help them out financially. Instead, they come off looking desperate. No one likes desperation.<\/p>\n

The most successful sugar babies don\u2019t broadcast their need for financial handouts. They focus on where they want to go in their life \u2013 which sugar daddies are far more likely to want to help out with.<\/p>\n

They also emphasize what they can do for their sugar daddies instead of what they themselves need. Remember, the sugar relationship is mutually beneficial. He already knows he\u2019s going to help you financially, so now focus on what you\u2019re going to offer him.<\/p>\n

Sugar Baby Profile Mistake #3. \u201cLooking to be spoiled\u201d<\/h2>\n

Oh, darling, aren\u2019t we all? We all want someone to cater to our every whim and fancy \u2013 and that includes sugar daddies too. A real sugar daddy will spoil you, whether you ask for it or not. But in order to hook such a man, you\u2019re going to have to be more creative than \u201cwant to be spoiled.\u201d<\/p>\n

At best, this makes you look uncreative. At worst, you come off entitled, unrealistic, and selfish. A fake sugar daddy might find this funny enough to play with you for a bit, but the real sugar daddies will probably pass on you.<\/p>\n

Remember \u2013 most sugar daddies became rich by making good business decisions \u2013 not by lavishing their money on investments that promise no returns.<\/p>\n

Instead of asking to be spoiled, start with what he wants to know first: what do you have to offer sugar daddy?<\/p>\n

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