{"id":1015,"date":"2017-07-12T16:19:48","date_gmt":"2017-07-12T20:19:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/?p=1015"},"modified":"2019-01-08T22:44:39","modified_gmt":"2019-01-09T03:44:39","slug":"sugar-baby-basic-stuff-4-things-aspiring-sugar-baby-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/sugar-baby-basic-stuff-4-things-aspiring-sugar-baby-know\/","title":{"rendered":"Sugar Baby Basic Stuff: 4 Things For Every Man And Woman Should Know"},"content":{"rendered":"
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To any and every man or woman who is aspiring to be a sugar baby \u2013 I hope this article which shows you some basic stuff finds you before your first sugar daddy\u00a0does. Why?<\/p>\n

Because apart from the know-how in picking the right Sugar Daddies, the techniques of negotiating allowance, and the little tips and tricks to controlling the relationship to progress your way \u2013 there are the fundamentals to sugar dating that lie at the very base of all of that.<\/p>\n

And these are the things that every Sugar baby absolutely needs to know.<\/p>\n

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Learn it. Memorize it. Internalize it. And don\u2019t forget it, no matter who you meet down the sugar road.<\/p>\n

#1. Men Think You\u2019re More Attractive Than You Think You Are<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a somewhat decent-looking girl, you probably have an assessment of your looks that you are right now comparing to the looks of so-and-so model or so-and-so gorgeous acquaintance, etc. By comparison, you don\u2019t feel so hot.<\/p>\n

Well, guess what?<\/p>\n

Most sugar daddies don\u2019t spend their days flipping through the pages of Cosmo. They\u2019re also too busy with work to go frolicking around with models all day. The simple fact that you\u2019re a young, cute girl makes you beautiful. Add to this the fact that you\u2019re a young, cute girl who is having dinner with them and interested in what they say, makes you the most gorgeous girl they know.<\/p>\n

In addition, you have to remember that men are human. And all humans are susceptible to a herd mentality: We believe what other people believe. That is why, in America, as the media broadcast images of models and underweight actresses, we believe this is an epitome of beauty. In Mauritania, however, girls force-feed themselves to attain the ideal fatness their men like.<\/p>\n

What all this means for you is that men will judge your beauty by how other people judge your beauty. And the primary way he can do that is by observing how attractive you seem to believe yourself to be.<\/p>\n

Have an unshakeable belief in your own attractiveness, and he\u2019ll believe it too.<\/i><\/p>\n

#2. Do NOT Equate your Physical Beauty with your Worth<\/b><\/p>\n

Many SBs fall into this trap when they\u2019re figuring out how much they should ask for an allowance. Some make the mistaken assumption that the allowance should be equivalent to your level of physical beauty. This is bullshit.<\/p>\n

By determining your allowance amount by your physical attractiveness, you\u2019re leaving out the majority of what you offer.<\/p>\n

Every girl possesses certain, non-physical qualities that are worth much more than her physical beauty and most often, those characteristics are what SDs are looking for. You might not be America\u2019s next top model, but are you witty enough to make him laugh? Are you thoughtful enough to know just when to say the right thing? Are you appreciative enough to make him feel like the amazing man who\u2019s made your life happier and easier?<\/p>\n

All these qualities of yours are priceless. He knows it. \u00a0Make sure you do too.<\/p>\n

#3. The Difference Between a Sweetheart and a Pushover<\/b><\/p>\n

People like sweethearts. Sweetness is wonderful. Sweetness can also be powerful. It can help you diffuse arguments, mask criticisms, and get out of undesirable situations.<\/p>\n

But sweetness needs to have a backbone. It needs to able to laugh in his face when he makes a moronic request. It needs to be able to let him know that he\u2019s being a douche when he\u2019s crossed the line. Do it sweetly, of course, but DO IT.<\/p>\n

Men will try to push you just to see if they can. This \u201cpushing the envelope\u201d game is also popular with dogs and children. \u00a0Whoever you\u2019re dealing with \u2013 remember that the boundaries need to be set early.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a sweet pushover, there is no greater service you can do for yourself than to practice saying, \u201cno.\u201d Say it with a smile. Follow it up nicely with something else you\u2019d like to happen instead. Keep your sweetness, but learn to mix it up with a little spice and a little sour when called for.<\/p>\n

#4. Most Importantly: You\u2019re Worth a Helluva Lot More Than Whatever He\u2019s Giving You<\/b><\/p>\n

Ever heard the saying, \u201cPeople spend their youth trying to make money and spend their money trying to buy youth?\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s uncanny how this saying sort of explains the entirety of the sugar relationship.<\/p>\n

But anyway, I\u2019ve brought this up so that you don\u2019t forget something mighty important: you may not have money, but you have youth. Guess which one is actually attainable.<\/p>\n

My point is, don\u2019t ever let yourself get intimidated by his wealth or successes. Don\u2019t let your life be dominated by what he wants from you.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re young and you have something worth much more than what he can ever offer you: you have a future. And a future full of possibilities has an allure greater than a past full of successes.<\/p>\n

You have something far more valuable than what your SD can offer you. Don\u2019t forget that.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

To any and every man or woman who is aspiring to be a sugar baby \u2013 I hope this article which shows you some basic stuff finds you before your first sugar daddy\u00a0does. Why? Because apart from the know-how in picking the right Sugar Daddies, the techniques of negotiating allowance, and the little tips and …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":4855,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1015","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-sugar-skills","8":"anons"},"views":832,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1015","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1015"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1015\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4855"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sugardaddy.world\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}